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Qantas unveils tribute to Luke Davies

<p>Qantas has unveiled how they will be honouring their slain colleague Luke Davies at the annual Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras. </p> <p>The bodies of Luke Davies and his boyfriend Jesse Baird were found buried in the NSW Southern Tablelands earlier this week, as police officer Beau Lamarre-Condon has been charged with two counts of murder over their deaths. </p> <p>Now, on the eve of the Mardi Gras parade that takes over Sydney's Oxford Street every year, Qantas has shared how they will honour Davies' life on the Flying Kangaroo float. </p> <p>Davies' name will be front and centre of the float, while Mardi Gras organiser Brandon Bear said this year’s festival would be a time for both celebration and mourning.</p> <p>“Mardi Gras is a multiplicity of things and we come together not just to celebrate, but also to spark conversation to make change and this year, there’ll be an element of us coming together to mourn,” he told <em>ABC News</em>. </p> <p>“We’re certainly working with the community (to recognise the couple) and we know our partners are working to use their parade float to talk to the lives and the memory of those young men.”</p> <p>The conversation around the death of Baird and Davies just before Mardi Gras has sparked a lot of debate, with Mardi Gras reaching an agreement with NSW Police saying they would be allowed to march in the parade, as long as they are not in uniform. </p> <p>A silent vigil is set to be held on Friday evening in the Sydney suburb of Darlinghurst to honour the lives of Luke and Jesse, with the public invited by their families to join them in mourning.</p> <p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 25px; padding: 0px; line-height: 24px;"><em>Image credits: Facebook / Qantas </em></p>

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Major festival event cancelled after deadly find

<p>Mardi Gras Fair Day has been cancelled four days out from the event after asbestos was discovered in Victoria Park, Sydney CBD. </p> <p>The organisers of the event, were informed of the site's contamination on Monday, with EPA officers finding positive results for bonded asbestos after undertaking tests earlier this week. </p> <p>Mardi Gras chef executive Gil Beckwith said that they are heartbroken after the decision was made, but the community's wellbeing is more important. </p> <p>“Fair Day is one of our most loved events, and is attended by over 70,000 people each year,” Beckwith said. </p> <p>“It breaks our heart to see this Sunday not go ahead, but given the safety concerns, we must put our communities’ wellbeing first.</p> <p>“The rest of our festival continues unchanged, offering many chances over the 17 days for our communities to come together in celebration and solidarity.”</p> <p>Other highlights including the Mardi Gras Parade and Bondi Beach Party will still go ahead as planned. </p> <p>This comes after the EPA confirmed that there is a widespread asbestos contamination with 22 sites across Sydney being affected, prompting the closure of parks, building sites, schools and train stations. </p> <p>Asbestos is a fibrous substance that can be trapped in the lungs if it's breathed in, and can lead to an increased risk in developing lung, ovary and throat cancer, according to the cancer council. </p> <p>Lord Mayor of Sydney Clover Moore said that it was an “incredibly disappointing” decision.</p> <p>“The NSW government and the EPA must make sure this never happens again,” she said. </p> <p>Asbestos has been found in two other city parks including Belmore Park in Haymarket and Harmony Park in Surry Hills. </p> <p>The Sydenham to Bankstown Rail Corridor sites including Campsie, Hurlstone Park, Dulwich Hill, Belmore, Wiley Park, Punchbowl and Marrickville have also been affected, with licensed removalists working hard to clear the sites. </p> <p>Over the coming week 32 more parks will be closed off, as they conduct more tests for contamination. </p> <p>“We urge everyone to avoid the mulched garden beds and mulched areas under trees at these parks while the inspections are being carried out,” a City of Sydney spokesperson said.</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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For some LGBTQ+ older people, events like World Pride can be isolating – we need to better understand how to support them

<p><a href="https://sydneyworldpride.com/">World Pride</a> has come to Sydney, with the annual <a href="https://sydneyworldpride.com/events/mardi-gras-parade/">Mardi Gras Parade</a> on Saturday having returned to its Oxford Street home for the first time in three years.</p> <p>The 17-day festival is expected to host 500,000 participants over more than 300 events. It is an opportunity to celebrate all things queer, and a good time to take stock of the changes LGBTQ+ older people have experienced, and the challenges they continue to face.</p> <p>LGBTQ+ people aged in their 70s, 80s and 90s have witnessed extraordinary social change regarding gender and sexual diversity. For example, in Australia, same-sex marriage is now legal, <a href="https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/where-transgender-is-no-longer-a-diagnosis/">Gender Identity Disorder</a> has been removed as a clinical diagnosis, and all states have an equal age of consent for homosexual and heterosexual sex.</p> <p>These have been hard-fought gains after many years of adversity and advocacy on the part of LGBTQ+ older people, among others.</p> <p>Each year, the <a href="https://www.78ers.org.au/">78ers</a> – who were involved in the Sydney marches and protests between June and August 1978 – take pride of place towards the front of the parade.</p> <h2>Loneliness and social isolation</h2> <p>Despite these achievements, the consequences of living most of one’s life in a homophobic and transphobic society have been considerable, particularly in terms of mental illness and social isolation.</p> <p><a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00918369.2021.2005999?journalCode=wjhm20">Australian</a> and <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34326557/">US</a> research indicates loneliness is more common among lesbian, gay and bisexual older people than the general population. This is particularly so for those who live alone and are not in a relationship. Similar findings are reported in relation to <a href="https://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/resources/pdfs/LGBT%20Aging%20and%20Health%20Report_final.pdf">transgender older people</a>, although more research is needed.</p> <p><a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00918369.2021.2005999?journalCode=wjhm20">Loneliness</a> is also more common among lesbian and gay older people who are disconnected from LGBTQ+ communities and who hold negative attitudes towards their own same-sex attraction.</p> <p>For LGBTQ+ older people experiencing social isolation and loneliness, what might be their experience of watching World Pride from a distance? What might it be like navigating rainbow paraphernalia while shopping at <a href="https://www.coles.com.au/about/sustainability/better-together/our-team/pride">Coles</a> (a World Pride partner)? How might they perceive the glitz and glamour of the Mardi Gras Parade?</p> <p>World Pride may be challenging for those who don’t feel an attachment to LGBTQ+ communities or who feel negative about their own sexuality. And this may reinforce a sense of disconnection.</p> <p>But some may gain comfort from witnessing the sense of community on display. It may even strengthen their perceived connection to other LGBTQ+ people. And, for those who are not open about their sexuality or authentic gender, it may support their journey to “come out” later in life.</p> <h2>The impact of discrimination</h2> <p>For many LGBTQ+ older people, the experience of discrimination remains very real in their lives. <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33770516/">Past and recent discrimination</a> leads to delays seeking treatment and support, simply because people expect to be discriminated against when accessing services.</p> <p>In Australia, previous discrimination has been found to predict <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00918369.2021.2005999?journalCode=wjhm20">loneliness</a> and <a href="https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/ageing-and-society/article/abs/recent-versus-lifetime-experiences-of-discrimination-and-the-mental-and-physical-health-of-older-lesbian-women-and-gay-men/90988215582414EA0AB7936B6384FC97">lower mental health</a> among older lesbian and gay people. In the US, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6779303/">microaggressions</a> – small everyday interactions that reinforce the experience of being “other” – have predicted greater impairment, higher rates of depression and lower quality of life among LGBTQ+ people aged 80 and over.</p> <p>There remain major gaps in evidence on the issues faced by LGBTQ+ older people, particularly for bisexual, queer, transgender and nonbinary older people. This is mainly due to the failure to systematically collect inclusive data on gender and sexual diversity, through variables such as those recommended by the <a href="https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/standards/standard-sex-gender-variations-sex-characteristics-and-sexual-orientation-variables/latest-release">Australian Bureau of Statistics</a>.</p> <h2>Strengths and resilience</h2> <p>This year, older people seemed to occupy a more prominent place in the Mardi Gras Parade. Perhaps this is because of the natural ageing of our community activists. Older people were also represented in the wider World Pride festival, such as in the theatre production <a href="https://sydneyworldpride.com/events/all-the-sex-ive-ever-had/">All the Sex I’ve Ever Had</a>, in which older Sydney residents reflect on the evolution of their sexuality over the course of their lives.</p> <p>A festival like World Pride showcases the strengths and resilience of LGBTQ+ people and communities. The organisation of such an event should not be underestimated. This reflects LGBTQ+ people’s high level of civic engagement and commitment to giving back to society, as demonstrated by their greater likelihood of being <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0312407X.2021.1899256">volunteers</a> and <a href="https://www.caregiving.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/2015_CaregivingintheUS_Final-Report-June-4_WEB.pdf">caregivers</a>. And the contribution of volunteers and caregivers during the HIV/AIDS crisis of the 1980s and ‘90s is not forgotten.</p> <p>LGBTQ+ older people generally are <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5241752/">resilient and maintain good health</a>. Many report increased <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-021-00653-z">confidence and self-esteem</a>, compared with when they were younger. And many have created their own families – their families of choice – to support each other in later life.</p> <p>But we don’t know enough about their needs and how to provide them with inclusive services as they get older. World Pride is an opportunity to reflect on the hard-won gains but not ignore the challenges ahead.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/for-some-lgbtq-older-people-events-like-world-pride-can-be-isolating-we-need-to-better-understand-how-to-support-them-200533" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>. </em></p>

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Nation split over Lidia Thorpe’s Mardi Gras protest

<p>Australians everywhere, from TV personalities to politicians and the public, have seized the opportunity to weigh in on Independent Senator Lidia Thorpe’s decision to temporarily halt Sydney’s 2023 Mardi Gras parade. </p> <p>Thorpe, who parted ways with the Greens party early in February, was - in her own words - protesting for “#NoPrideInGenocide, #NoPrideInPrisons, and #NoCopsInPride” when her actions caught the attention of the gathered crowds, with footage uploaded to social media showing her on her back in front of a parade float. </p> <p>In the clip, NSW police officers can be seen addressing Thorpe, and eventually she was moved on. Reports have stated that earlier, she could be seen walking backwards in front of an Australian Federal Police officer while waving a small rainbow flag. </p> <p>A statement from NSW Police claimed she was removed “at the request of organisers for breaching the terms of her participation”. They have since confirmed that the senator was not arrested and will not be charged over the incident. </p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Lidia Thorpe gonna Lidia Thorpe. <a href="https://t.co/879xXgA4LX">pic.twitter.com/879xXgA4LX</a></p> <p>— Rita Panahi (@RitaPanahi) <a href="https://twitter.com/RitaPanahi/status/1629673736273293312?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 26, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>As with all acts deemed controversial by social media, the video blew up, and the story reached the eyes and ears of people all across the country. </p> <p>Thorpe attempted to get ahead of the discussion and set the record straight, tweeting that she was proud to have joined the Pride in Protest with their No Pride in Genocide float, as “Black and brown trans women started the first pride march as a protest against police violence. Today, we still face violence from [the] police.” </p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Black and brown trans women started the first pride march as a protest against police violence. Today, we still face violence from police. Proud to have joined the <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/PrideInProtest?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#PrideInProtest</a> float in Sydney to say <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/NoPrideInGenocide?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#NoPrideInGenocide</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/NoPrideInPrisons?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#NoPrideInPrisons</a>, and <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/NoCopsInPride?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#NoCopsInPride</a></p> <p>— Senator Lidia Thorpe (@SenatorThorpe) <a href="https://twitter.com/SenatorThorpe/status/1629609463396302848?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 25, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>When Thorpe’s attendance was first announced, No Pride in Genocide’s spokesperson Mikhael Burnard stated that “the oppression of queer people and the oppression of Indigenous people and refugees are one and the same fight.”</p> <p>And while many raced to Lidia’s comment section to declare her a “legend” for their movement, just as many have been loud about their distaste for the senator’s actions. </p> <p>“Lidia Thorpe did the queerest thing out of anyone at that co-opted, corporatised, pinkwashed excuse for a Pride march, &amp; it aligns with the sentiments/needs of the most vulnerable members of the LGBTIQA+ community - &amp; marginalised communities at large,” wrote one supporter. </p> <p>“God it's funny how people don't understand that the entire point of protest is to be disruptive,” tweeted another, “that's why it's effective. Lidia Thorpe could write a polite letter to the king of the police that will do nothing, or she can actually centre cops at pride as part of the conversation.”</p> <p>“Rusted on supporters of Lidia Thorpe who said yesterday it was ‘important context’ that she stopped a ‘police float’ now say it doesn't matter which float she stopped after learning last night it was a float for youth mental health services,” wrote a critic. </p> <p>And now, radio’s Ben Fordham and NSW Premier Dominic Perrottet have seen fit to offer their opinion. Notably, neither figure was in attendance at the Mardi Gras celebration, although <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/anthony-albanese-makes-history-at-mardi-gras" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Prime Minister Anthony Albanese made history</a> with his march in support of Australia’s thriving LGBTQIA+ community. </p> <p><em>2GB</em>’s Ben Fordham labelled Lidia a “rogue”, calling her protest “a whole new low.” </p> <p>“Once again she has proven she is unfit for public office,” Ben, who has never held a position in office himself, went on, “that’s the reality.”</p> <p>The debate over having police officers at Pride events has been around for a long time, and many came to Lidia’s defence citing the history of police repression with the LGBTQIA+ community - including but not limited to police brutality towards organisers, advocates, and participants alike. </p> <p>In New South Wales, where Mardi Gras was held this year with WorldPride, the failure of authorities to investigate murders of a homophobic nature across three decades is never far from the minds of many. Ben, however, had his own take on the matter. </p> <p>“Even though you’ve got police officers who for decades now have been part of the Mardi Gras trying to send a message to the gay and lesbian community that they’re on their side,” he said, “Lidia Thorpe doesn’t want them there.”</p> <p>“It’s just typical Lidia Thorpe. It’s a disgrace,” Premier Dominic Perrottet agreed. </p> <p>“As a society, we need to respect different views and not just tolerate it, but celebrate different perspectives,” Perrottet went on as he continued to condemn Thorpe’s standpoint, “and what we see from Lidia Thorpe and the Greens is this negativity and worse than that, this divisive nature of their politics.”</p> <p><em>Images: Twitter</em></p>

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Anthony Albanese makes history at Mardi Gras

<p>For the first time in three years, Sydney's annual Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras parade hit the road on Oxford Street on Saturday night. </p> <p>In a celebration of LGBTQIA+ love and equality, Anthony Albanese joined 12,000 on the Oxford Street pilgrimage, making history as Australia's first sitting Prime Minister to march in the parade. </p> <p>“It’s unfortunate that I am the first, but this is a celebration of modern Australia ... a diverse and inclusive Australia,” he told ABC's Jeremy Fernandez. </p> <div data-testid="body-content"> <p>“We need to be a country that respects everyone for who they are.”</p> <p>Marching in his 35th Mardi Gras, Albanese paid tribute to the 78ers – the protesters from the original march 45 years ago ″⁣who were thrown in jail” for expressing and celebrating their sexuality. </p> <p>“We need to continue to argue for equality,” he said.</p> <p>The prime minister appeared alongside NSW Opposition Leader Chris Minns and Environment Minister Tanya Plibersek.</p> <p>Recapping the night on Instagram, Albanese shared a photo of the Labor float as he walked with his colleagues, writing, "When the first Mardi Gras march was held in 1978, you could still be arrested for being gay."</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; 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margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CpFVlMZBcjL/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Anthony Albanese (@albomp)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"In the decades since, people dedicated their lives toward the campaign for equality. To be accepted as equal and recognised for who they are and who they love."</p> <p>"I’ve been proudly marching in @sydneymardigras since the 80s. This year I’m honoured to be the first Prime Minister to join the march."</p> <p>Aussies were quick to praise the Prime Minister's actions, with one person commenting, "Never thought I would see this in my lifetime! Thank you 👏😘🙏🏻."</p> <p>Another supporter took aim at the previous government, saying "If ScoMo was the win for the "the quiet Australian", you have to be the PM for those who can no longer be quiet, for those that want and deserve to be heard. Thanks for leading through listening and walking with, thanks for including and sharing. 🌈 🙌"</p> <p>Another shared their gratitude for the PM, writing, "People can only be what they can see - to see our PM embracing equality, diversity and inclusiveness is a wonderful example to see. Bravo Albo 👏."</p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram </em></p> </div>

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Reviled, reclaimed and respected: the history of the word ‘queer’

<p>Recently, a number of people have questioned or critiqued the use of the word “queer” to describe LGBTIQA+ folk. One <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jan/13/please-dont-use-the-q-word?utm_term=Autofeed&amp;CMP=twt_gu&amp;utm_medium&amp;utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1673635001">writer to the Guardian</a> claimed that the “q-word” was as derogatory and offensive as the “n-word”, and should not be used.</p> <p>While there is a clear history of the word being used in aggressive and insulting ways, the meaning(s) and uses of queer have never been singular, simple or stable.</p> <h2>The origin of the word ‘queer’</h2> <p>Queer is a word of uncertain origin that had entered the English language by the early 16th century, when it was primarily used to mean strange, odd, peculiar or eccentric. By the late 19th century it was <a href="https://www.oah.org/tah/issues/2019/may/queer-history/#:%7E:text=Up%20through%20the%20nineteenth%20century,columns%20to%20private%20epistolary%20speculation.">being used</a> colloquially to refer to same-sex attracted men. While this usage was frequently derogatory, queer was simultaneously used in neutral and affirming ways.</p> <p>The examples <a href="https://www-oed-com.ez.library.latrobe.edu.au/view/Entry/156235">provided in the Oxford English Dictionary</a> show this semantic range, including instances of homosexual men using queer as a positive self-description at the same time as it was being used in the most insulting terms.</p> <p>Compare the neutral:“Fourteen young men were invited […] with the premise that they would have the opportunity of meeting some of the prominent ‘queers’” (1914); the insulting: “fairies, pansies, and queers conducted […] lewd practices” (1936); and self-affirmed uses: “young men who call themselves ‘queers’” (1952).</p> <p>In the 1960s and 1970s, as sexual and gender minorities fought for civil rights and promoted new ways of being in society, we also sought new names for ourselves. Gay liberationists began to reclaim queer from its earlier hurtful usages, <a href="https://outhistory.org/files/original/f6d46c5d90761e3a66edcd4fe32a6785.pdf">chanting</a> “out of the closets, into the streets” and singing “we’re here because we’re queer”. </p> <p>Their <a href="https://outhistory.org/exhibits/show/come-out-magazine-1969-1972/the-come-out-archive">newsletters from the time</a> reveal sustained questioning of the words, labels and politics of naming that lesbian and gay people could and should use about themselves. Some gay libbers even wanted to <a href="https://outhistory.org/files/original/3809edc277d5dbfd51f8883422e761b7.pdf">cancel the word homosexual</a> because they felt it limited their potential and “prescribes a whole system of behaviour […] which has nothing to do with my day-to-day living”.</p> <p>In Australia, camp was briefly the most common label that lesbian women and gay men used to describe themselves, before gay became more prominent, used at that time by both homosexual men and women.</p> <h2>The evolving use of the word queer</h2> <p>In the early 1990s, gay had come to be used more typically to refer to gay men. Respectful and inclusive standards of language evolved to “lesbian and gay”, and then “LGBT”, as bisexuals and transgender people sought greater recognition. </p> <p>Queer began to be used in a different way again: not as a synonym for gay, but as a critical and political identity that challenged normative ideas about sexuality and gender.</p> <p><a href="https://guides.libraries.indiana.edu/c.php?g=995240&amp;p=8361766">Queer theory</a> drew on <a href="https://www.thoughtco.com/social-constructionism-4586374">social constructionism</a> – the theory that people develop knowledge of the world in a social context – to critique the idea any sexuality or gender identity was normal or natural. This showed how particular norms of sexuality and gender were historically contingent.</p> <p>Thinkers such as Michel Foucault, Michael Warner, Judith Butler, Eve Kosofsky Sedgewick and Lauren Berlant were enormously influential in the development of this new idea of queer. Some people began to identify as queer in the critical sense, not as a synonym for a stable gender or sexual identity, but to indicate a non-conforming gender or sexual identity. </p> <p>Activists in groups such as <a href="http://queernation.org/">Queer Nation</a> also used queer in this critical sense as part of their more assertive, anti-assimilationist political actions.</p> <h2>Queer as an umbrella term</h2> <p>From the early 2000s, it became more common to use queer as an umbrella term that was inclusive of the spectrum of sexual and gender identities represented in the LGBTIQA+ acronym.</p> <p>Today, queer is included among the terms lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, gender diverse, intersex, asexual, <a href="https://junkee.com/brotherboy-sistergirl-decolonise-gender/262222">brotherboy and sistergirl</a>, <a href="https://www.stylemanual.gov.au/accessible-and-inclusive-content/inclusive-language/gender-and-sexual-diversity">recognised in style guides</a> as the most respectful and inclusive way to refer to people with diverse sexualities and genders.</p> <p>Of course, the different usages and meaning of words such as queer have often overlapped and have been hotly contested. Historical usages and associations persist and can sit uncomfortably next to contemporary reclamations.</p> <h2>Queer as a slur?</h2> <p>Contemporary concerns with queer’s historical use as a slur seem odd to me. The heritage report <a href="https://queerarchives.org.au/heritage-100/">A History of LGBTIQ+ Victoria in 100 Places and Objects</a> (which I co-authored), surveys the complexity of language use in historical and contemporary society.</p> <p>It is notable that almost all of the words that LGBTIQA+ people use to describe ourselves today have been reclaimed from homophobic or transphobic origins.</p> <p>In fact, it could be said that liberating words from non-affirming religious, clinical or colloquial contexts and giving them our own meanings is one of the defining characteristics of LGBTIQA+ history.</p> <p>While queer does have a history of being used as an insult, that has never been its sole meaning. Same-sex attracted and gender diverse folks have taken the word and have been ascribing it with better meanings for at least the past 50 years. </p> <p>Queer’s predominant use today is as an affirming term that is inclusive of all people in the rainbow acronym. </p> <p>At a time when trans and gender diverse folk are facing particularly harsh attacks, I’m all for efforts to promote inclusion and solidarity. Respectful language use doesn’t require us to cancel queer, but rather to be mindful of its history and how that history is experienced by our readers and listeners.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/reviled-reclaimed-and-respected-the-history-of-the-word-queer-197533" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>. </em></p>

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The one food King Charles just banned from all royal residences

<p>King Charles III has banned a classic French delicacy from his royal residence. The ban comes following animal cruelty concerns, PETA have confirmed.</p> <p>The animal rights group said the King removed "foie gras" which is a traditional delacy made from the fattened liver of a duck or goose. It has been off the royal menu for quite some time now, both at Buckingham Palace and all other residences owned by the royal family.</p> <p>The food product was banned around 2008, while Charles was the Prince of Wales. PETA have more recently confirmed the King has issued a blanket ban on the product which was described as “torture in a tin”.</p> <p>The foie gras ban extends to Balmoral, Sandringham, Windsor Castle, Hillsborough Castle and Buckingham Palace, reports claim.</p> <p>"As Prince of Wales, King Charles removed foie gras – a despicable product for which ducks and geese are force-fed until their livers swell up to 10 times their natural size before the animals are slaughtered – from his royal residences," a PETA spokesperson said.</p> <p>The group made public a letter they received from royal officials confirming the ban.</p> <p>"I can confirm that foie gras is not purchased by the Royal Household nor served in Royal Residences, and there are no plans for this policy to change," the letter reads.</p> <p>The letter was signed by the Master of the King's Household, Tony Johnstone-Burt and dated November 10, 2022.</p> <p>Elisa Allen, PETA's vice president, said she hoped Charles' move would encourage other people to ditch foie gras from their diet.</p> <p>There is a ban on the production of foie gras in the UK, Australia and New Zealand. However, it can be imported and sold within those countries.</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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Calls to ban NSW Police from participating in Mardi Gras

<p>A coalition of LGBTIQ groups, community members and supporters released <a href="https://prideinprotest.medium.com/open-letter-from-the-lgbtq-community-regarding-mardi-gras-relationship-with-the-police-and-b375bfe41a22">an open letter</a> on 21 October calling on the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras to reconsider the participation of NSW police and Corrective Services NSW, as a sign of solidarity with the Black Lives Matter movement.</p> <p>The letter notes that the recent upsurge in Black Lives Matter has shone a light on police brutality towards First Nations peoples and ongoing deaths in custody. And it also acknowledges that other communities of colour are subjected to prejudicial overpolicing.</p> <p>In taking this stand, the letter authors further outline that LGBTIQ communities and Mardi Gras itself have been targeted with homophobic and transphobic police violence.</p> <p>Not only did <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/police-stations-we-attend/orange-police-station/">NSW police</a> attack the first Mardi Gras parade in 1978, but in 2013, police actions at the event were so excessive that the show of force received widespread condemnation.</p> <p>And in taking all of this into consideration, those undersigning the open letter assert that as Mardi Gras festival participants, they don’t want the event to be seen as promoting the activities of the NSW Police Force or Corrective Services NSW.</p> <p><strong>Police targets</strong></p> <p>“Black Lives Matter has pushed to the forefront the degree to which police violence disproportionately affects Aboriginal people in this country, and all people of colour,” said Dani Cotton, a member of <a href="https://www.facebook.com/PrideInProtest">Pride in Protest</a>, the group that initiated the letter.</p> <p>“But we’ve also seen it disproportionately impact queer people, and in particular, trans people,” they continued. “At the rally about Latham’s transphobic bill a couple of weeks ago, the police violently attacked, broke someone’s arm, intimidated and arrested people.”</p> <p>Despite a court order banning the event, the <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/trans-rights-activists-triumph-over-protest-ban-police-respond-with-force/">Protect Trans Kids rally</a> took place on 10 October. The initial gathering at Taylor Square was peaceful. However, police then tried to shut it down, provoking protesters to march into Sydney’s CBD, where they were met by a show of excessive police force.</p> <p>“Queerphobic and transphobic violence is something that also comes from the police,” Cotton told Sydney Criminal Lawyers. “So, there’s solidarity between these different groups.”</p> <p>No pride in genocide</p> <p>Both NSW police and Corrective Services NSW regularly have floats in the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras parade, which feature uniformed officers and guards. And progressive groups, like Pride in Protest, have long been calling out the inclusion of these institutions in the event.</p> <p>The letter authors state that while understanding their request may “put Mardi Gras in a difficult position”, they feel an event such as it should not be promoting NSW police branding. And nor should the festival include institutions that propagate prejudicial violence and repression.</p> <p>“Uniformed police should not be marching in Mardi Gras. They should not be given a special police contingent, and there should not be a corrective services contingent either,” Cotton concluded.</p> <p>“It should be a community march, with people marching in solidarity for queer rights. That’s how Mardi Gras started.”</p> <p>The <a href="https://prideinprotest.medium.com/open-letter-from-the-lgbtq-community-regarding-mardi-gras-relationship-with-the-police-and-b375bfe41a22">open letter</a> can be signed up until the 5 November, when it will be presented to the Mardi Gras board.</p> <p><em>Written by Paul Gregoire. Republished with permission of <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/calls-to-ban-nsw-police-from-participating-in-mardi-gras/">Sydney Criminal Lawyers.</a> </em></p>

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83-year-old gran’s beautiful reaction to transgender grandson

<p>For many young members of the LGBTI community, coming out is not only daunting, but can unleash a torrent of verbal abuse, bullying, and even physical violence from the people who supposedly love them the most.</p> <p>However, one transgender 20-year-old, Gavin Cueto, found the most accepting member of his family was actually his grandmother – 83-year-old Elaine. In fact, when he decided to come out, he decided she would be the first person he would tell. “I was scared that I would get disowned, so I knew if I told my nan first I’d have a place to stay if anything went wrong,” Gavin told <a href="https://www.buzzfeed.com/skarlan/gotta-love-nan?utm_term=.ck2vKM9og#.vbOyWVe69" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">BuzzFeed</span></strong></a>.</p> <p>“Gavin came in wanting to talk to me,” Elaine recalls. “He said, ‘Nan, I’ve got something to tell you. I want to be a boy.’” Her response was utterly perfect – “Wouldn’t we all? We’d all like to be a man, because they’ve got a better life than us.”</p> <p>Since then, Elaine has been by Gavin’s side for all the important milestones throughout his transition, from choosing his new name to supporting him during his first testosterone injections.</p> <p>Watch their incredible bond in action above. We think everyone could learn a thing or two from this supportive nan!</p> <p><em>Video: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HoMYDH7BcmQ" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Gavin Cuerto</strong></span></a>/YouTube</em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2017/02/girls-wear-same-dress-in-photos-for-52-years/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Girls in family wear same dress in school pictures for 52 years</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2017/02/grandma-texts-daily-encouragement/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Grandma’s daily encouraging texts to grandkids</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/retirement-life/2017/01/grandma-knits-rainbow-jumper-for-bisexual-granddaughter-to-show-support/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Grandma knits rainbow jumper for bisexual granddaughter to show support</strong></em></span></a></p>

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David Jones creates celebratory video with Australia’s first transgender diva, Carlotta, for Mardi Gras

<p>With Sydney Mardi Gras coming up this weekend the air is filled with anticipation, pride and just a hint of sparkle.</p> <p>To celebrate the 2016 Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, David Jones Sydney store has partnered with one of their most fabulous window dressers from the 60s and Australia’s first transgender diva, Carlotta.</p> <p>Just like the stores Christmas decorations, Carlotta’s works of art tell a story. From her first working days at David Jones as a 15-year-old, through her fiery and sparkle laden journey to becoming an inspiration. </p> <p>She once made a living painting mannequins' faces and backdrops before making her name as a cabaret performer in the renowned all male revue show, Les Girls in Kings Cross. It was here that she started living her life a woman, naming herself Carol Spencer. Carlotta fondly recalls her days as "The Queen of the Cross" in this incredible interview.</p> <p>It a peep hole into the fabulous energy of the influential figure and her role in the pursuit of equality and acceptance.</p> <p>This Mardi Gras, Carlotta wants for all to be harpy in our own skin and be proud of who you are. Be inspired to be everything you are in the video above.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2015/10/style-lessons-from-iris/">Style lessons from Iris Apfel</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/01/favourite-looks-from-advance-style-blog/">The best looks from the advance style blog</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/entertainment/tv/2016/01/oprahs-most-inspiring-quotes/">Oprah’s 20 most inspiring quotes to live by</a></em></strong></span></p>

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Still a tireless champion of gay rights at 86

<p>Twenty years after founding Parramatta’s Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) association, 86-year-old Mollie Smith is still fighting for the rights of the gay community.</p><p>“I established [PFLAG] because I believed there was a great need in Western Sydney, and I still do," she said.</p><p>Drawing a few timid parents back at the first meeting in 1985, today PFLAG counts over 40 active members who are thankful to have a local support group.</p><p>“I'm very proud of PFLAG, and it's tremendous how they're expanding and continuing,” Mrs Smith said.</p><p>After more than 20 years as a community activist, Mrs Smith’s commitment has not wavered. Her attitude and enthusiasm are infectious.&nbsp;</p><p>Mrs Smith was not surprised when her son “came out” to his parents when he was 23 in the mid 1980s.&nbsp;</p><p>“I thought he probably was gay, but I don’t think you should confront people and say ‘are you gay or are you straight?’” she explained.</p><p>“It wasn't until my son came out that I thought it was quite dreadful that respect wasn't given to gay people,” she revealed.</p><p>“My driving motive has been a fair go for everyone.”</p><p>“I recall going to my first Mardi Gras and seeing a young man standing in front of the crowd,” Mrs Smith said.</p><p>“This kid had tears rolling down his cheeks, and I thought that was dreadful, and he called out ‘I wish you were my mother’.&nbsp;</p><p>“I thought what a dreadful thing, no child should ever have to say that.”</p><p>Mrs Smith, a retired social worker, and her late husband Ken worked together to promote gay rights in western Sydney.</p><p>She has lost count of how many times she’s marched at Mardi Gras, and will return to parade this coming Saturday March 7.&nbsp;</p><p>“Things aren't what they used to be, so I'll be like a duchess riding in a chauffeured car,” the 86-year-old laughed.</p><p><strong>Related links:</strong></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/news/news/2015/02/community-adopts-90-year-old-woman/" target="_blank">Meet the 90-year-old woman who was adopted by her community when they found out she had no family</a>&nbsp;</strong></em></span></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/news/news/2015/02/dogs-motivating-kids-to-read/" target="_blank">These special dogs are helping children learn to read</a></strong></em></span></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/news/news/2015/02/worlds-oldest-twins-103/" target="_blank">The world’s oldest twins are just as close as ever at 103</a></strong></em></span></p>

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