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Your legacy. Their future. Will you be the difference in an uncertain world?

Connection. Safety. Friendship. Family. When you <a href="https://www.redcross.org.au/donate-funds/bequest/pass-it-on/will-planning-checklist-social/?utm_medium=digital&utm_source=edm&utm_campaign=bequests&utm_content=over60s" target="_blank" rel="noopener">leave a gift in your Will for Australian Red Cross</a>, there’s no end to the difference you can make. Just ask Elsie. At 95 years old, Elsie has been transformed by weekly visits from Fiona, her Red Cross volunteer. For Fiona, her visits to see 95-year-old nursing home resident Elsie quickly turned into a family affair. "My children, Tom and Meg, have become very attached to her and vice versa. They're like, 'Are you going to see Elsie, can we come too?' They see how lovely it is to be kind to someone like Elsie," says Fiona. "Elsie tells me, 'You're my special family.'" Fiona's dog, Mia, is even a regular visitor at the Tasmanian nursing home. "Mia's like a celebrity. All the residents love her." The family marks all the big milestones with Elsie, like Christmas Day when they brought her home for a special morning tea. "When she turned 95 in December, we took her to a café. She said that was the best birthday she'd had for a long time." <img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2024/08/RedCross_01.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /> Elsie celebrating her birthday with Fiona's children, Tom and Meg. It is very much a two-way friendship, says Fiona. "I wasn't expecting it to be like that. I thought it was going to be more me doing lots of things for Elsie. But she gives back a lot." Like when Fiona's daughter, Meg, didn't pass her driver's license test. "Meg was quite upset. Elsie goes to her, 'That's why they invented pencils with rubbers at the end. They are there for you to rub out your mistakes, and then you can have another go.' "She's wise. She gives them little bits of advice and words of wisdom, and they listen to what she says … I can't believe she's 95 years old. Her mind is so unbelievably sharp." Fiona says that, lately, Elsie has not been as mobile as she was, and so they often spend their time together at the nursing home. "We find a nice spot and have a cuppa … She likes telling stories about her life. She talks a lot about her husband, her upbringing, people she's met. "Often, I'll bring her some magazines, or she will have asked me to get some stamps. And my kids have been great with her with technology, how to do this and how to do that. "We chat with other residents as well. Even though Elsie's our person, there are other people we've got to know. She introduces us as 'This is my family.'" Fiona says the first time they met, she and Elsie discovered they had much in common. They both grew up in the same country town and had travelled around Australia managing hotels. They care a lot about each other, she says. "I think it's given her more of a will to live. That sounds pretty deep, but I know how much she looks forward to seeing us; it's giving her more purpose in life. "Elsie always says, 'You make me feel so happy. I love seeing you, it's such a highlight.' I say it back to her because it's the same for me, 'I get so much joy out of seeing you.'" Fiona says she hopes her story inspires other people to volunteer, too. Your generosity, captured in your Will, can help fund programs like our Aged Care Volunteer Visitors Scheme and foster social connections like Elsie and Fiona’s. The program supports more than 1000 participants across the country with the majority between the ages of 78 and 89. Everybody deserves the warmth of kindness and friendship, and your Will can help Australian Red Cross share that with people for generations to come. <a href="https://www.redcross.org.au/donate-funds/bequest/pass-it-on/will-planning-checklist-social/?utm_medium=digital&utm_source=edm&utm_campaign=bequests&utm_content=over60s" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2024/08/RedCross_02_wQRCode.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="638" /></a> If you would like a free <a href="https://www.redcross.org.au/donate-funds/bequest/pass-it-on/will-planning-checklist-social/?utm_medium=digital&utm_source=edm&utm_campaign=bequests&utm_content=over60s" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Will Planning Checklist</a>, or more information, our <a href="mailto:litran@redcross.org.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Gifts in Wills Specialist</a> would love to help. You <a style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" href="mailto:litran@redcross.org.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">get in touch here</a> or call 1800 733 276. All images: Supplied. This is a sponsored article produced in partnership with Australian Red Cross.

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Internet in stitches at one woman’s dog breed blunder

A woman in the US received quite the surprise when she set out to pick up her new furry friend, expecting to find a fluff ball in the form of a Shih-Tzu-cross-Bichon ‘Shichon’ puppy waiting for her. However, Melissa Windsor’s dreams took a turn when she met the mutt destined to capture her heart, and learned that things don’t always look exactly like they did online. Taking to Facebook to share her story, Melissa posted two pictures - one of the caramel teddy bear puppy she’d been seeking, and another of what she’d received, a scruffy little fellow with an alarming case of bedhead. “Little Roosevelt is four-months-old and looks more like a llama than a teddy bear,” she captioned her post, and the image of the sweet-faced Roosevelt in his pyjamas, “but I love him just the same.” According to Daily Paws, ‘shichons’ are generally small and fluffy, although the cross bread has the potential to produce puppies that have “totally different” appearances across just one litter. The post drew in over 1,000 views, and more than 200 other comments from fellow What I Asked For vs What I Got users. And while some took the opportunity to suggest that Melissa had brought the case of ‘dogfishing’ upon herself, most were every bit as amused as the proud new owner, and took to the comments to share their delight at the tale. One spoke for the masses when they declared that “he’s such a cute mess!” “He's awesomely cute,” another agreed, before elaborating that it was “in a manic Einstein kinda way”. “His hair looks like Kramer from Seinfeld,” one remarked. “Looks like he’s been electrocuted,” someone noted. “Poor buddy looks like me when the coffee hasn't kicked in,” another shared, “fighting with four kids.” One user went on to tell Melissa that their dog looked just like her beloved Roosevelt, asking if it was “possible that he's a mini Aussie doodle?” Some groomers, however, suggested that he just didn’t look like Melissa expected as he hadn’t had his fur tended to just yet. Melissa then shared that she was going to get a DNA test for the precious pup, as “at this point anything is possible”, and that she would like to know if her little friend would actually have the traits and qualities expected of his supposed breed. Images: Facebook

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American influencer shocked to discover speed cameras are real

An American influencer currently living in Sydney has learned an expensive lesson in obeying the rules of the road, particularly while in full view of speed cameras. TikToker Sophia Kim was caught racing through Sydney’s Cross City Tunnel at 21 km/h over the speed limit - 101 km/h in an 80 km/h zone - and took to social media to share her surprise at receiving a ticket for her actions. In a video posted to her TikTok account, Sophia broke the news to her followers, running through what had transpired - her ‘reasons’ for speeding, and sharing images of her car between lanes in the tunnel, along with the caption “this is BS and I was only going 60 mph”. “I got a speeding fine because I was going 100km in the Cross City Tunnel when it was 80km,” she explained in the now-viral post, “and apparently there are cameras in the tunnel. “As an American, I got a licence here without taking any test, without learning about the Australian [driving] laws here, and I didn’t realise that you guys have cameras for speeding in the tunnels. “And apparently there are signs everywhere.” Sophia went on to describe how she’d been “so focussed on driving” and “stressed out” trying to navigate while “driving for the first time in a different country on the other side of the road”. According to the TikToker, at home in America there might be cameras involved when it came to running red lights, but that speeding offences fell to police officers and their scanners. At this stage, Sophia was talking over an image of her car with an 80 km/h sign clear on the ceiling of the tunnel. “The fine is $295,” she announced, before revealing that she’d been having a great day, on her way to Fashion Week events, and “was rushing to get there. “I thought I was saving money by driving and not Ubering but no, it’s actually more when you get a fine.” It turns out that Sophia had borrowed the car from a friend, who informed her that he couldn’t afford “to lose 3 points over this”, and had to transfer the fine into her name. And despite claiming that she would pay the fine and have the points deducted from her licence, she then asked her followers if she “should fight this”. <div><iframe title="tiktok embed" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2Fv2%2F7237487133483814187&display_name=tiktok&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40sophiainsydney%2Fvideo%2F7237487133483814187&image=https%3A%2F%2Fp16-sign.tiktokcdn-us.com%2Fobj%2Ftos-useast5-p-0068-tx%2Ff969d5dac251496aa62d08dfdb8a417f_1685108800%3Fx-expires%3D1685433600%26x-signature%3D%252FwZf1iguRsEhBEcz37LOvMtuELI%253D&key=59e3ae3acaa649a5a98672932445e203&type=text%2Fhtml&schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div> Her post attracted more than 9,000 comments, and while some took Sophia’s side, most were of the opinion that fighting the fine would be a waste of time, and had many thoughts to share about the whole situation. “There’s no fighting this one,” one told her, “if there’s a speed sign that says 80 right in front of you they’re not gonna be forgivable”. “That's a fair bit over the limit. Maybe just don't speed hey!” one suggested. “If only there were large LED displays hung above the road every 1 km to tell you the maximum speed you can do,” another mused. And as a like-minded soul put it, “[it’s] almost like speed signs exist for a reason and not decoration”. “Because the signs with the speed limit and the fact they tell you every 100m there’s a speed camera don’t help,” someone else added. Meanwhile, one was of the opinion that it could have been worse, sharing that “in QLD that would be a $646 fine for 21km over the limit. NSW is cheap”. “Lesson learned I guess,” one more supposed, before noting that at least “now you know." Images: TikTok

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"Crossed a line": Bell Shakespeare's blistering response to negative review

Australian theatre company, Bell Shakespeare, has publicly issued a blistering response to a theatre critic’s “cruel and unfair” review. The Age critic Cameron Woodhead gave the theatre company’s current production of Macbeth a two star rating - and he singled out the lead actor, Hazem Shammas’ performance of Macbeth. In his review, Woodhead claimed that Shammas “belongs in the Richard III ward of Monty Python’s Hospital for Over-Acting”. He said that the Logie-winning actor’s portrayal of Macbeth was “so cartoonish” and “unhinged” and that he was “stalked by the inappropriate silhouette of the clown”. The 500-word review mostly nitpicked at Shammas’ performance, commenting on how he should reign in his “vein-popping excess” and “trust in the words” of Shakespeare, as if he knew what Shakespeare would’ve wanted. The review was published online on April 27 and a week later Bell Shakespeare launched their blistering response on social media. <iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FBellShakespeareCo%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0359Wr76jN92ZX4DCPbSRNjn3557HSHfGARRtr8nqhUCTQFH19yy65fS2hTjCoRADKl&show_text=true&width=500" width="500" height="478" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe> The statement began with the theatre company explaining that they are open to criticism and understand that sometimes there will be “creative differences”. “The Age’s theatre critic, Cameron Woodhead, didn’t like our current production of Macbeth (May 1 edition). That’s his prerogative; many critics have provided favourable reviews of this production and Macbeth means many things to many people. One of the joys of seeing Shakespeare’s works is to debate them afterwards. “This time though, we must call out conduct which, in our view, was cruel and unfair,” they wrote in their statement posted on Facebook. “Cameron’s targeting of the lead actor Hazem Shammas was, in our view, belittling and contemptuous,” they added, citing Woodhead’s harsh comments. “Whilst Cameron may have issues with the production, we do not consider a response should ever be draped in language like this. In our view, no actor deserves to be dismissed so personally in a theatre review”. They added that Shammas’ personal life and Palestinian background allowed him to resonate with the fact that “Macbeth is driven by something that finally breaks him,” as that story was his “dad’s story in terms of coming to this land and then pursuing his dreams at all costs, in terms of the costs to himself and breaking the hearts of the ones he left behind.” “Actors don’t have a voice when critics write negative things about them. It has long been thus. However, the stage is their workplace. And they are entitled to a safe space at work just as much as anyone,” they wrote, defending Shammas. They ended the statement saying that Woodhead had “crossed a line”. Many fans have applauded the company for standing up for their star, while others justified Woodhead’s criticism. “Cameron Woodhead gave one of my novels a bruisingly rude review a few years ago. I think he enjoys unleashing the poison pen occasionally. I have finally managed to laugh about it, but it took me years,” commented one person. “What a great response and wonderful example of integrity from Bell Shakespeare!” commented another person “Good on you for calling this out. We can be critical without being cruel, and given the tough times we’re in, we can all employ a little more respect and kindness,” wrote a third. Image: Bell Shakespeare

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Trans people aren’t new, and neither is their oppression: a history of gender crossing in 19th-century Australia

This article contains references to anti-trans, colonial and institutional violence, and includes information about an Aboriginal person who died in the early 20th century. Anti-transgender hatred is on the rise. Driven by pseudoscience and backed by <a href="https://www.crikey.com.au/2023/03/10/anti-trans-disinformation-australia-transphobia/">well-funded far-right pressure groups</a>, part of the premise of the anti-trans “gender critical” movement is that trans people are new and unnatural. History shows us this is not the case. The “trans” prefix emerged in 1910 with Magnus Hirschfeld’s research on “<a href="https://www.transgendermap.com/politics/sexology/magnus-hirschfeld/">transvestism</a>” (initially a medical term). Hirschfeld was a gay German Jewish doctor whose research centre, the <a href="https://magnus-hirschfeld.de/ausstellungen/institute/">Institut für Sexualwissenschaft</a>, has been called the world’s first trans clinic. The institute was destroyed by Nazis in 1933. You might be familiar with this image of Nazi book-burning – the books in question were Hirschfeld’s research. In the 1800s, people who crossed gender categories were not understood to be “transvestites” or transgender, but were referred to as “masqueraders”, “impersonators”, “men-women” and “freaks”. As such, I consider my research to be a work of shared queer and trans history, but not necessarily a history of trans people. I am not interested in how people in the past might have identified today, but in how they lived and how their communities responded to them. <h2>Gender variance in First Nations communities</h2> Far from being new, gender variance on this continent predates Europeans’ arrival in Australia. Several Aboriginal nations have traditions of <a href="https://www.transhub.org.au/trans-mob">culturally specific gender categories</a>. In 2015 the organisation Sisters and Brothers NT noted the terms “Kwarte Kwarte” in Arrernte, “Kungka Kungka” in Pitjantjatjara and Luritja, “Yimpininni” in Tiwi, and “Karnta Pia” in Warlpiri, which can be interpreted as “like a girl”, while “Kungka Wati” in Pintipi and “Girriji Kati” in Waramungu literally mean “woman/man”. Sandy O’Sullivan, a Wiradjuri trans scholar and professor, notes that the imposition of European gender norms on First Nations peoples was part of a broader colonial project that sought to eliminate Indigenous cultures and kinship systems. <h2>Gender transgression in colonial Australia</h2> In colonial Australia, gender transgression was structurally managed via carceral systems such as lunatic asylums, police and prisons. Although there was no formal legislation against cross-dressing or gender-crossing, people were often charged with vagrancy, fraud, sodomy, impersonation or indecent behaviour. A lot of Australian legislation was inherited from or influenced by British legislation, including the 1533 Buggery Act and the 1885 Criminal Law Amendment Act, also known as “An Act to make further provision for the Protection of Women and Girls”, which strengthened existing legislation against homosexuality and sex work. In the 19th century there was no formal or medical process for gender transition. When people crossed gender categories, they did so socially, sometimes for their entire lifetimes. On a local level, gender crossers were frequently accepted in their communities if they met certain conditions. People were more likely to be accepted if they were white, transmasculine, and contributing to the productive workforce. People who were socially marginalised or lacking in support from family and friends were more likely to have hostile interactions with the law and with medicine. <h2>Madness, medicalisation, and criminalisation</h2> Gender transgression over years or decades was often interpreted as evidence of insanity. There were cases such as Tom Hurly, institutionalised in Parramatta Lunatic Asylum in 1861, and Edward de Lacy Evans, institutionalised in Bendigo Hospital and Kew Asylum in 1879. Edward Moate – referred to in the press as “another De Lacy Evans” – was institutionalised in Beechworth Asylum in 1884. The lunatic asylum was a structure that maintained and restored the colonial order. To be discharged and re-enter the community, patients had to demonstrate that their insanity had been “cured”, which for gender transgressors generally meant being forced to detransition. Edward de Lacy Evans was made to return to dressing as a woman and was discharged only a few months after his admission. Edward Moate, on the other hand, refused to provide a female name or reassume a female gender expression, and died in the asylum three years later, still under the name Edward Moate. Vagrancy charges were the most common way of criminalising gender crossing. This was frequently applied to people who lived as women, who were more likely to be seen as dangerously deviant than tolerably eccentric. In 1863, Ellen Maguire was charged with vagrancy in Melbourne for “personating a woman”. Officially, the vagrancy charge was one of “having no visible means of support”, despite most of the court trial focusing on her employment as a sex worker and her supposed deception of her male clients. She was eventually convicted of sodomy and died in prison after six years. Sometimes the twin modes of medicalisation and criminalisation were applied simultaneously. In 1896, the Warengesda Aborigines’ Mission reported an Aboriginal (probably Wiradjuri) youth named H Paroo for “masquerading in the garb of a man”. Paroo was ordered to leave the station, but refused to comply. The station wrote a letter to the Aborigines’ Protection Board asking if Paroo could be removed, either by being “given in charge as a vagrant” or “as not fit to be at large” (that is, as a “wandering lunatic”). <h2>Full and authentic lives</h2> Not everyone who was exposed in the press was vilified or incarcerated as a result. Some people lived full lives in their chosen gender categories, and were only outed after their deaths. In 1893, a farmer named Jack Jorgensen died in Elmore, near Bendigo, and was promptly exposed in the press as yet “another De Lacy Evans”. Jorgensen had suffered an injury at work but refused to go to Bendigo Hospital. He signed his will as Johann Martin Jorgensen, and died at home under the care of his housemates, who knew about his gender but kept the secret until after his death. These stories are important because they show that the criminalisation and pathologisation of gender transgression is not a new phenomenon. Medicine and the justice system have a long history of being weaponised against trans people and anyone trespassing from the gendered status quo. If we are to work towards trans liberation in the present, we must reckon with these histories and address their structural legacies. Image credits: Getty Images This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/trans-people-arent-new-and-neither-is-their-oppression-a-history-of-gender-crossing-in-19th-century-australia-201663" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>.

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Best baked goods in Australia crowned

The Victorian Baking Show, held by the Baking Association of Australia, has enjoyed another year of treats and celebration in 2023. The annual show took place in Bendigo for the second time, with judges enjoying their share of 590 different baked goods from 143 passionate bakers across Victoria, Tasmania, South Australia, Queensland, and New South Wales. And despite the very difficult task ahead of them, the panel were able to crown winners in numerous bread, pastry, and sweet categories. The show’s most sought after titles? Australia’s Best Hot Cross Bun and Australia’s Best Vanilla Slice. North End Bakehouse in Shepparton, Victoria, seized victory with their vanilla slice. The Australian classic typically features a thick layer of vanilla custard between layers of puff pastry, most often with icing sugar sprinkled on top. But North End Bakehouse opt to shake things up, with their slice showcasing a sleek coating of white fondant instead. “This was an absolute stand out,” executive officer of the Baking Association, and host of the Victorian Baking Show, Tony Smith declared, “the judges couldn’t believe how creamy the custard was, and the fondant was tempered perfectly on top. The pastry was crisp and thin, not soggy.” “John Humphrey, one of the main judges - along with Stewart Latter, Chief Judge for the BAA - judged the vanilla slices and stated that sometimes it’s very hard to temper the fondant and allow it to sit perfectly on top,” he continued “along with this, some people have custard filling that leaves a gritty or grainy feeling in your mouth. “But this was perfect!” North End Bakehouse’s success didn’t stop there, either, with the bakery also taking home a win for its 680g sourdough loaf. And although they didn’t snag the coveted first place prize for their hot cross buns, they did secure the title of “Best Innovative Hot Cross Bun” for their Vegemite-flavoured treat. Meanwhile, the accolade of Australia’s Best Hot Cross Bun went to South Australia’s Banana Boogie. And not only did they seize first place, but also the second-place trophy. “The Hot Cross Bun Competition is judged over several sections by two judges,” Tony explained, “the main thing is the judges cut one in half across from left to right, and then another on a diagonal. This allows the judges to see the fruit distribution in the bun and make sure it is evenly spread. “Of course, there is spice aroma and then mouth feel, making sure it is fresh and doesn’t stick to the roof of your mouth.” The baked goods just kept coming from there, with winners across all of the show’s categories announced. For the category of 2 Small Individual Fruit Tartlets, Mildura’s Sunraysia Bread and Butter Bakery claimed the top spot. They also now boast the title of having Australia’s best pasties. Melbourne’s Country Cob Bakery had the best meat pies, as well as the judges’ favourite gourmet pies. Victoria’s McKinnon Village Bakery found their claim to fame with everyone’s favourite: Australia’s Best Sausage Rolls. And last but not least, Mooroopna Bakery - also in Victoria - set tastebuds tingling with their iced doughnuts. Images: Facebook

Food & Wine

Royal fans react to Kim Kardashian's purchase of Princess Diana's jewellery

The Attallah Cross, famously worn by Diana, Princess of Wales, has reportedly been purchased at auction by none other than reality TV star Kim Kardashian. Kim, best known for her time on Keeping Up With the Kardashians, purchased the piece for $197,453 USD (approximately $284,654.04 AUD) at the Sotheby’s Royal & Noble sale. The necklace was seen on Diana at a Gala for Birthright, now known as Wellbeing of Women, in October 1987. Diana paired the piece with a purple velvet Catherine Walker gown. It features 5.25 carats of circular-cut diamonds that accentuate square-cut amethysts in a cross formation. It was designed by luxury jewellery designer and former crown jeweller Garrard, who made numerous pieces for Diana. Most notably, her iconic sapphire and diamond engagement ring, now in the possession of Catherine, Princess of Wales . Naim Attallah, first owner of the cross, loaned it to her several times throughout their friendship. as friends with Diana and loaned it to her several times. According to reports, the cross hasn’t been seen in public since it was last worn by Diana, who was the only one to ever don it. New owner Kim Kardashian is no stranger to sporting vintage pieces. Most recently, Kim divided the internet when she wore the crystal-encrusted dress Marilyn Monroe wore to serenade US President John F Kennedy with “Happy Birthday” in 1962. The internet erupted with outrage when the news of Kim’s jewellery purchase broke, with critics quick to share their opinion. “Kim Kardashian owning Princess Diana’s cross necklace has put me in a vile mood,” came one gripe. <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> Kim Kardashian Acquires Bejeweled Cross Worn By Princess Diana For $197,453 <a href="https://t.co/wglEwLyutg">https://t.co/wglEwLyutg</a> <a href="https://t.co/uz1VqiJT8x">pic.twitter.com/uz1VqiJT8x</a> — Forbes (@Forbes) <a href="https://twitter.com/Forbes/status/1615825124472537088?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">January 18, 2023</a></blockquote> One individual referenced a popular internet meme featuring Kardashian, in which she was seen crying in the ocean after losing a diamond earring. Doubtful about the necklace’s future, they wrote, “and next week it’s gonna be ‘Kim Kardashian has lost Princess Diana’s iconic diamond cross necklace in the ocean’.” Some fans took the time to point out that the cross was never actually owned by Diana, with one tweeting, “Princess Diana did not own it. The jewellery company let her borrow it for an event.” A few seized the opportunity to try and drag Harry and Meghan into the mix, while some tried to make light of the situation amongst the outrage, bringing it full circle with a throwback to the dress saga with, “sorry Marilyn Monroe, Kim Kardashian is now taking style cues from Princess Diana.” Images: Getty Images

Beauty & Style

Road rule test: Is it against the law to cross an unbroken double line?

You would hope that licenced drivers would be aware of the road rules that are currently in place, but it turns out there is one rule that a surprising number of motorists aren’t aware of, and it has to do with road markings. A surprising number of motorists are under the impression that they are unable to cross an unbroken double line when driving, are you one of them? If living in the state of NSW, there are plenty of instances where drivers are permitted to cross unbroken double lines, and one of them is if you're entering or leaving a road. The idea that it is illegal to cross a continuous double or single line when driving off or on to a road is a myth. According to the NSW road rules. crossing a dividing line is allowed if entering or leaving a propery or road "by the shortest route." <img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="../media/7820974/capture.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/4c925f97f74c4f1f9a84a3926f4a15e5" />A good example is when coming out of a petrol station, it is perfectly legal to turn right over the dividing lines unless there is a sign specifically saying you can't. The rule applies to both double and single unbroken road markings. Drivers are also allowed to cross any type of dividing line when turning right at an intersection. Motorists in NSW are also permitted to cross unbroken lines if needing to maintain a safe distance when overtaking a bicycle rider or to avoid obstruction on the road. If passing a cyclist, drivers must leave a one metre gap in a 60km/h or less speed zone or 1.5 metres when the limit is above 60km/h. When deciding whether a road obstruction permits someone to cross double lines, drivers must use their own intuition and make sure they have a clear view of oncoming traffic, and if it is “necessary and reasonable in all circumstances” to cross the dividing line and if it is safe to do so. Speaking to <a href="https://www.news.com.au/technology/innovation/motoring/on-the-road/the-double-dividing-line-rule-many-aussie-drivers-are-getting-wrong/news-story/9baa90c6155e10810b64a83ea99348a0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">news.com.au</a>, Transport for NSW said that it is critical that all drivers are aware of the road rules, and update themselves regularly if any changes are made. “It is important that all road users know the rules and abide by them,” a Transport for NSW spokesperson said. “We will include this rule in the next Road Rules Awareness Week in early 2019.” Drivers in the Northern Territory and Western Australia are also allowed to turn right across double dividing lines when entering or leaving a property. It is illegal in Victoria, Queensland, South Australia and Tasmania to cross a double dividing line when entering or leaving a road. Motorists in Victoria are only permitted to cross double lines to avoid a potential hazard, while those in Queensland are only allowed if overtaking a cyclist. Tasmanians and South Australians are able to cross the line in both of these situations. According to <a href="http://mylicence.sa.gov.au/road-rules/the-drivers-handbook/driving-road" target="_blank" rel="noopener">MyLicenceSA</a>, a “slower moving vehicle or a vehicle stopped in a line of traffic” is not considered an obstruction. But if a situation occurs where a driver is faced with a fallen tree, crashed vehicle or broken down car, then it is permitted to cross an unbroken line. In NSW, illegally crossing an unbroken like could cost you two demerit points and a $263 fine. Victoria and South Australia have the highest penalties for illegally crossing an unbroken line, with fines of $322 and $446 and both costing three demerit points. Queensland also has a three-demerit point penalty, along with a $234 fine. Drivers in Tasmania are subjected to a $203.75 fine and two demerit points while Western Australia has the lowest penalties at $150 but will cost drivers three demerit points. Image: Shutterstock

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Karen’s Diner slammed for "crossing the line"

Karen’s Diner has been slammed for crossing the line and body shaming a man for his receding hairline. The popular restaurant popped up and instantly became a sensation where the staff are basically required to be “very rude” to customers. However, in this instance, the staff at Karen’s Diner in Brisbane went a step too far and made a comment about a man’s receding hairline. “What’s one thing your f***ing sign says,” the visibly angry man yells at the workers. “No body shaming,” he said as he pointed to the sign of instructions which must be followed. At the man’s feet are some napkins and straws which suggest the man may have thrown them in fury. <div><iframe title="tiktok embed" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2Fv2%2F7146733441411828994&display_name=tiktok&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bechardgrave%2Fvideo%2F7146733441411828994%3F_r%3D1%26_t%3D8Vycdj6hoP4%26is_from_webapp%3Dv1%26item_id%3D7146733441411828994&key=5b465a7e134d4f09b4e6901220de11f0&type=text%2Fhtml&schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div> The video was shared to TikTok by Bec Hardgrav who said that during her time there, the staff were commenting about people’s looks. “They were making offensive comments about people’s appearances," she said. “They told my friend she needs to brush her hair, like how mean is that. “They told my other friend that she was too old and threw cups at us. “I know they’re paid to be mean to you but it was a little hectic. Safe to say I probably won’t come back." Some people commented on the video saying that people should not go to the restaurant if they can’t handle the banter. “You should all know the risks before entering. If you’re too soft, don’t eat there,” someone wrote. “Karen's shouldn't go to Karen's diner,” another commented. “Do people not understand the concept on this place? If you’re going to get offended and mad, don’t go- simple,” another wrote. Others however, were on the man’s side saying he knew the rules more than the staff did and applauded him for his stance. “Literally the guy at the end is on the right,” someone commented. “There’s a difference between Karen’s and bullies,” another wrote. “The guy at the end is well in the right,” someone else wrote. The Karen’s Diner website also has the house rules which must be followed otherwise people will be asked to leave for breaking them. “No racist, sexist, homophobic or ableist comments or slurs will be tolerated,” the list begins. “No body shaming, no sexual harassment, any damage or vandalism of the venue will lead to instant removal from the venue, keep your food and drink on your tables, don’t throw them, it’s not fun. “Even though this is Karen’s Diner, OHS rules still apply. We are a functioning restaurant so do not interfere with hospitality processes. “Just sit down, shut up, eat your food and bring on the banter.” Images: TikTok

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Who is Michael Pratt and why is he going to the Queen’s funeral?

As Operation London Bridge swung into effect the moment Queen Elizabeth II passed away, Australian recipients of the prestigious Victoria Cross were automatically extended invites to attend her funeral and other official commemorations in London. To that end, Victoria Cross holders <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/ben-roberts-smith-intends-to-attend-queen-elizabeth-ii-s-funeral" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ben Roberts-Smith</a>, Daniel Keighran, Keith Payne and Mark Donaldson were included on Her Majesty's wishes. What's less commonly known is that Australia's only living George Cross recipient – Michael Pratt – was also invited, and in fact has already left for London. But who is he? The George Cross is the highest award civilians can receive in both the British and Australian Honours system, equal in stature to the British Victoria Cross and the Victoria Cross for Australia. The gazetted award is given out to recognise “acts of the greatest heroism or for the most conspicuous courage in circumstances of extreme danger” by British citizens and, previously, those living in Commonwealth countries. Australians received the George Cross up until 1992, when Prime Minister Paul Keating announced Australia wouldn’t be making recommendations for British Honours. Michael Pratt, who was the last Australian to receive the prestigious award, was just 21 and on his way to get a haircut on his day off. When he spotted three armed and masked bandits entering a bank in the inner-Melbourne suburb of Clifton Hill, the young policeman drove his car into the front door. “The only thing I had going for me was the element of surprise,” Pratt told the <a href="https://www.heraldsun.com.au/truecrimeaustralia/behindthescenes/behind-the-lines-why-police-officer-michael-pratt-rammed-his-mazda-into-a-clifton-hill-bank/news-story/d4132e76ac4ee363247473827209ce45" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Herald Sun</a> in 2020. “I reckon the three crooks must have been well and truly surprised when my Mazda came through the intersection, up and over the gutter, crashed into the door of the bank and blocked the entrance.” But, when he then went to the boot of his car to arm himself with the long-handled shovel he’d been using the previous day, all he had to hand was a jack handle to use against the trio - who turned out to be among the most prolific and dangerous bandits in the country. “There was one bloke inside the door of the bank, and he’s waving his arms around, pointing a silver .22 pistol at me and telling me to move my car,” Pratt recalled. Another bloke is up on the counter, fanning his revolver over the staff and customers in the bank, and the third one was in the tellers’ cages, yelling out to the bloke watching the front door ‘Shoot him!, Shoot him!, Get him out of the way!’ “Then the manager and a customer in his office ran towards the back of the bank, and the crook who’d stayed in the public area fired a shot that hit the door frame at head height.” Meanwhile, notorious Sydney gunman Lance Chee was emptying the tills before jumping back over the counter and bolting out the back door. The remaining two, a hitman-for-hire and his cousin, decided to leave the same way they arrived. “They were pulling on the bank door, but couldn’t open it because of the damage my car had done to the frame. They soon solved that problem though by kicking the glass out of the door, which freed it up and let them pull it open,” Pratt continued. “The guy who had been watching the doorway then came across the bonnet, so I grabbed hold of him and it was on. I got a few good ones in and so did he, but he’s gone down in front of me, semiconscious and on his hands and knees. “When I next saw the other bloke he was standing about eight to ten feet away, with his gun pointed straight at me. The one hunched over on the ground started to get up, so I thought if I could get him in a bear hug and use him as a shield his mate wouldn’t shoot. “But somehow I lost sight of the bloke with the gun and he got around behind me. Then he shot me in the back from about six feet, and down I went”. The bullet hit Pratt in the back near his left shoulder blade, missing his heart and leaving a burn scar on his aorta before puncturing his left lung, leaving a hole in his spine, and stopping inside his right lung. Pratt credited the doctors at St Vincent’s Hospital for saving his life, with one of his most vivid memories being of a priest giving him his Last Rites and a “tiny little nun” holding his hand. After five hours of surgery, the bullet was removed and now lives in a specimen jar in his home. Detectives from the Armed Robbery Squad were among the first to visit Pratt while he recovered, taking a dying deposition in case his condition declined. Pratt was able to confirm their suspicions about who was involved in the robbery, after he identified the hitman from a photo board as the man who shot him. All three of the culprits were eventually arrested. In the many decades since, Pratt visited the Queen 16 times in the company of some of the world’s bravest people. As the 67-year-old prepares to see the monarch one last time, we wish him godspeed for his final meeting with her. Images: Supplied

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Man donates blood an incredible 600 times

A man has made an extraordinary accomplishment of saving more than 1,800 lives after donating blood 600 times. Bruce from Port Macquarie was egged on by his Aunty Mary after she had donated blood 70 times saying he would not be able to do as much as she did. But, Bruce being Bruce, he decided to accept his aunt's challenge and went ahead to donate blood. “My Aunty Mary told me she had done 70 donations, and that I would never catch her,” he said. “Smart lady, that one and the challenge was accepted.” Bruce, 60, now skateboards to an Australian Red Cross donation centre every fortnight to give generously. Since starting his blood donation, Bruce has become the first person in Port Macquarie – and one of only 60 people in Australia – to have donated blood a whopping 600 times. All those blood donations have contributed to saving the lives of up to 1,800 people including new mothers, babies, cancer patients and trauma sufferers. When asked for advice and encouragement on the process of donating, Bruce explained that it was a rewarding experience. “The vampires at [Lifeblood] are lovely and it doesn't hurt much at all, so I encourage others to put something back, roll up your sleeves and save a life,” he said. Bruce commended his Aunty Mary, saying that without her support he would not have reached the incredible milestone. Image: Australian Red Cross Lifeblood

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Alcohol marketing has crossed borders and entered the metaverse – how do we regulate the new digital risk?

The World Health Organization’s newly <a href="https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/9789240046504" target="_blank" rel="noopener">released report</a> on regulating cross-border alcohol marketing raises the alarm for countries like Australia and New Zealand, given their light touch towards alcohol advertising. Alcohol is widely consumed in Australasia but there is ongoing tension over how much restraint, if any, should be placed on the marketing of these products. Australia and New Zealand are at the unrestrained end of the marketing continuum. Both countries rely on industry-led policy in the form of voluntary codes – an approach identified as insufficient by the WHO report. What is cross-border alcohol marketing? Alcohol marketing, created and disseminated in one country and spread across borders into others, is commonly used by multinational corporations striving to increase sales and normalise alcohol as an everyday product. Much of this advertising is taking place in the digital media sphere. The increased use of these media platforms by alcohol corporations allows them access to cheap advertising opportunities. For as <a href="https://au.reset.tech/uploads/resettechaustralia_profiling-children-for-advertising-1.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">little as US$2</a>, an advertising campaign based in Australia could reach a thousand young people profiled as interested in alcohol, for example. Marketing across digital media has also increased the impact of those messages. Brands interact with users on social media platforms, encouraging the posting, sharing and liking of <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33573719/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">branded images and messages</a>. Higher user engagement is associated with <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32079562/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">more drinking</a>. <figure class="align-center "><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&fit=clip" sizes="(min-width: 1466px) 754px, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, (min-width: 600px) 600px, 237px" srcset="https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=600&h=400&fit=crop&dpr=1 600w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=30&auto=format&w=600&h=400&fit=crop&dpr=2 1200w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=15&auto=format&w=600&h=400&fit=crop&dpr=3 1800w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&h=503&fit=crop&dpr=1 754w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=30&auto=format&w=754&h=503&fit=crop&dpr=2 1508w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464113/original/file-20220518-21284-beeqsu.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=15&auto=format&w=754&h=503&fit=crop&dpr=3 2262w" alt="AB InBev logo behind a smartphone also showing the logo" /><figcaption>Multinational corporations like AB InBev have been quick to embrace digital platforms as a new way to advertise alcohol products. <a class="source" href="https://www.gettyimages.com.au/detail/news-photo/in-this-photo-illustration-an-ab-inbev-logo-is-seen-on-a-news-photo/1234971135?adppopup=true" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Pavlo Gonchar/Getty Images</a></figcaption></figure> Targeting the individual The increased power of these advertisements reflects the effectiveness of “personalised marketing”. Companies can now target individuals and “look alike” audiences. This approach is made possible thanks to the enormous amount of data collected as we interact together, purchase products and indicate our interests and passions through our clicks and likes. This data is extremely valuable to marketers and alcohol corporations. It gives them insight into the best time of day, the best brand of alcohol and the best type of marketing message to send our way. All groups across society are vulnerable to being bombarded by messages encouraging the purchase and consumption of alcohol. Digital advertising can target everyone: teenagers looking for brands which exemplify their identity; young adults, the heaviest “occasion drinkers” in Australia and New Zealand, some of whom are developing drinking habits that may be hard to change in later life; and adults of all ages who wish to reduce their consumption, often for health reasons. Digital media has become an all-encompassing marketing environment in which the “buy” button – with home delivery and often no checks on age or intoxication – provides a seamless marketing and distribution system. In New Zealand, <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/dar.13222" target="_blank" rel="noopener">online sales</a> increased significantly during the COVID-19 lockdowns, particularly among heavier drinkers. Entering the metaverse The alcohol industry is now showing its initiative by entering the emerging <a href="https://www.ypulse.com/article/2022/02/03/metaverse-mansions-more-tiktok-how-brands-are-marketing-for-this-years-super-bowl/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">metaverse</a>. To understand the metaverse, <a href="https://thedecisionlab.com/insights/technology/brave-new-world-how-the-metaverse-may-shape-our-psychology" target="_blank" rel="noopener">according to one commentator</a>, you should <blockquote> take today’s social media, add a splash of sophisticated 3D, fold in a plethora of options for entertainment and gaming, garnish it all with data-driven personalisation, and you are all set to take away your order of a supersized social media network, the metaverse. </blockquote> In terms of marketing, this provides a new opportunity. The biometric data essential to a virtual reality experience is also available to develop “<a href="https://scholarship.law.vanderbilt.edu/jetlaw/vol23/iss1/1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">biometric psychographics</a>”, allowing for the even greater personalisation of advertising. Virtual alcohol brands created and used by avatars in the metaverse support the development of brand allegiance in real life, and virtual reality will transform e-commerce experiences and increase the power of sponsorship. AB InBev, the largest global alcohol corporation, was an early adopter of the metaverse. One of its brands, <a href="https://sifted.eu/articles/metaverse-brands-nft/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Stella Artois</a>, is sponsoring the Australian Zed Run platform on which virtual horses can be raced, bred and traded. The Zed Run platform experienced 1,000% growth in early 2021. <figure class="align-center "><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&fit=clip" sizes="(min-width: 1466px) 754px, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, (min-width: 600px) 600px, 237px" srcset="https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=600&h=400&fit=crop&dpr=1 600w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=30&auto=format&w=600&h=400&fit=crop&dpr=2 1200w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=15&auto=format&w=600&h=400&fit=crop&dpr=3 1800w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&h=503&fit=crop&dpr=1 754w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=30&auto=format&w=754&h=503&fit=crop&dpr=2 1508w, https://images.theconversation.com/files/464116/original/file-20220518-23-f6cjil.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=15&auto=format&w=754&h=503&fit=crop&dpr=3 2262w" alt="Two people stand in front of a screen with a digital image of a horse." /><figcaption>Digital horse racing game Zed Run has exploded in popularity, with alcohol companies using the digital platform to reach a new audience. <a class="source" href="https://www.gettyimages.com.au/detail/news-photo/performers-tyra-cartledge-and-kendall-drury-takes-part-in-a-news-photo/1329475903?adppopup=true" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Lisa Maree Williams/Getty Images</a></figcaption></figure> Regulating to reduce alcohol harm The digital world is extremely dynamic. It is also opaque to most policy makers and public health practitioners. It is telling that there is no reference to the metaverse as a cross-border alcohol marketing opportunity in the WHO report. There is an urgent need for debate regarding how policy makers should better understand the risks involved with the targeted marketing of hazardous products such as alcohol. The WHO report outlines various partial and unsuccessful approaches to regulating marketing in the digital media. Attempts, such as <a href="https://helda.helsinki.fi/bitstream/handle/10138/303690/Alcohol_marketing_on_social_media_sites_in_Finland_and_Sweden_2019.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Finland’s</a> regulation of user-shared branded material, have failed because they did not interfere with the basic architecture of the social media platforms, which is predicated on engagement via sharing and liking. The most successful examples offered by the WHO report have been countries like Norway, which have imposed a complete ban on alcohol marketing including in the digital media. The report emphasises the need for surveillance and enforcement, suggesting ways in which alcohol companies could be penalised for marketing breaches. The support provided by international agreements such as the <a href="https://fctc.who.int/who-fctc/overview" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Framework Convention on Tobacco Control</a> is identified as a possible template for future discussions. The response to tobacco marketing provides a good and largely effective model for officials and policy makers. That said, the public health goal for alcohol is not equivalent to the smokefree goal. Advocates are not trying to eliminate alcohol altogether. However, there are parallel arguments in favour of creating a healthier media environment through regulation to prevent the promotion of alcohol products via increasingly sophisticated technological and psychological tools. These products are significant causes of reduced well-being, and this marketing increases consumption and therefore harm. The messages of the WHO report are timely and should be heeded.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/183334/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /> <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/sally-casswell-862029" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Sally Casswell</a>, Professor of public health policy, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/massey-university-806" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Massey University</a> This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/alcohol-marketing-has-crossed-borders-and-entered-the-metaverse-how-do-we-regulate-the-new-digital-risk-183334" target="_blank" rel="noopener">original article</a>. Image: Getty Images

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5 minutes with author Lyn McFarlane

In the Over60 “5 Minutes With” series, we ask book writers about their literary habits and preferences. Next up is Lyn McFarlane, who is debuting her novel The Scarlet Cross on March 29. Lyn McFarlane is a Canadian-Australian writer, lawyer and former freelance journalist. She splits her time between Sydney, Australia and Vancouver Island, Canada. She holds degrees in economics and journalism and a masters in law. The Scarlet Cross won the Arthur Ellis Prize for Best Unpublished Manuscript in 2019. The Scarlet Cross will keep the reader on their toes as they join Meredith Griffin in the emergency department at St Jude Hospital, who questions why women who all had the same fatal injury were labelled as suicides. Over60 spoke to Lyn and asked about where her love of writing came from, how much her own law history contributed to her book, and the inspiration behind The Scarlet Cross. Could you tell us about your background and your writing style? I have always loved language, and have a deep fondness for writers who can use words with precision and economy. My background as a lawyer may contribute to this, but even before I studied and practiced law, I relished authors - Raymond Carver, Colm Tobin or Cormac McCarthy, spring to mind - who deliver writing that is clean and sparse on its face, but has a top spin that knocks you off your feet. This is the writing style that I aspire to. What book(s) are you reading right now? Crossroads by Jonathan Franzen, The Way it is Now by Garry Disher, and Olive, Again by Elizabeth Strout. With a background in journalism and degrees in law and economics, did you find that this helped you break into crime writing or help your writing in any way? I have always wanted to write fiction and I have several unpublished short stories and half-written manuscripts to prove it! I don’t think my education and professional life were critical to being a novelist, but both things helped me find the discipline and confidence to follow an idea through to the end of a finished manuscript. You need many things to write a novel. People may think creativity and talent are the main ingredients, but I think it mostly requires hard work, energy, grit, confidence and, in homage to Virginia Woolf, a room of one’s one. It’s also critical to have the support of others around you. All of the things I have done in my life, and all of my relationships, contributed to the writing of The Scarlet Cross. What inspired you to write The Scarlet Cross? The seed for The Scarlet Cross was planted by my sister, who is an avid crime reader and a former psychiatric nurse. She suggested a hospital as the main setting for a crime. We both agreed that hospitals were these unique public places and the frontline workers within them are often on the coal face of crime. The kernel for the idea was a simple question: What if an emergency nurse observes patients coming in with similar, strange cuts? Those two ideas - the hospital setting and the pattern of patient deaths - set me off on my journey. Then, when I started building the characters, I realised I wanted to have these characters grapple with several important social issues: how people who have mental health issues manage them and how their families help of hinder that; sexual harassment and bullying in the workplace; institutional power. Which author, living or deceased, would you most like to have dinner with? I think this is the hardest question of all! There are so many, but I would say Margaret Atwood, because acidic wit makes for great dinner table banter. What book (or books) do you think more people should read? Middlemarch by George Eliot for its piercing intelligence and broad vision of humanity. How do you deal with writer’s block? I use a mix of practicality, discipline and distraction. The practicality is inspired by a quote from Geraldine Brooks that I have on the corkboard above my computer. It’s a simple question: “Do bricklayers get bricklaying block?” What a lovely chastisement to just “Get on with it”! The discipline comes from my ballet training and my legal career and it says to me: “Lyn, just sit your butt in that chair and start.” The distraction is usually physical - I get up and go for a walk or do yoga. Or, I put on music. Or I do some scaffolding writing, which is writing about what I am writing - to feel like I am advancing the project.

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REVEALED: Best hot cross buns of 2022

Each year the same question raises its head: Which are the best hot cross buns on the market – and (two-part question, bear with us) who exactly is doing the judging? It's always a relief when Choice Magazine, the leading consumer advocacy group in Australia, joins the fray to pick the best bun on the market. The winner this year, according to the panel of expert judges, is Woolworths for the classic hot cross bun category. The supermarket giant also managed to score two buns in the top three. This year, 23 hot cross buns were tested, including traditional fruit buns, apple and cinnamon and chocolate. The taste testing also covered gluten-free options and was across the major supermarkets from Coles, Woolworths and IGA to Aldi, as well as major bakery chain Bakers Delight and bargain membership warehouse Costco. Of course, there are flavours ranging from spicy Jalapeno to Caramilk buns available, but the biggest question is always around the traditional-style bun. It's hard to compare all the unusual flavours, so it makes far more sense to focus on who is doing the best fruit buns each year. The rest is up to personal tastes. Choice only recommends products with a rating of over 70% from their judges. This year, three traditional buns came in over that rating, making them the recommendations and winners. Scores were made up of points for appearance, aroma, texture and flavour. So, who were the winners? 3. Woolworths Indulgent Brioche Fruit Hot Cross buns In third place with a rating of 72 per cent was the <a href="https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/114168/woolworths-indulgent-brioche-fruit-hot-cross-buns">Woolworths</a> brioche version of the hot cross bun. It's an enriched bun with milk and eggs for an almost cake-like experience, and because of this it has a yellower colour, which is typical of enriched breads. According to the judges it was mellow on the aromas and spices, but had a light glaze, was lovely and soft and moist, and scored well for visual appeal. A pack of six is $4.50, making them 75c per bun. 2. Aldi Bakers Life Indulgent Traditional Fruit Coming in just above this score was the <a href="https://www.aldi.com.au/">Aldi</a> Bakers Life Indulgent Traditional Fruit hot cross bun, with a 73 per cent rating. This bun is popular every year, with Aldi always scoring well for Easter taste tests. According to the judges these buns were on the large side, and while they were dense they had good bounce-back. Presentation was neat and appealing, there was a strong cinnamon aroma, the colour was good and the buns were commended for the amount of fruit and spice throughout. Priced at $2.99 for a four pack, that makes the buns 75c each. 1. Woolworths Luxurious Richly Fruited Hot Cross Buns The winning bun for 2022 was Woolworths Luxurious Richly Fruited hot cross bun — but with a significant price difference per bun, this can't really be surprising. The rating of this bun was 84 per cent, so the votes went up along with the price. The buns had the highest fruit content and they also scored highly for texture and appearance. The fruit mix includes cranberries and candied peel, and the spices were noted as being good too. With two out of the top three buns being Woolworth's products, it's safe to say that this year, Woolies' Easter buns are on the money. At $4.50 for a four pack, they come in at $1.13 per bun, but it sounds like they're worth it. Let us know which bun you think deserves the top spot!

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TV legend Delvene Delaney’s flood “trauma”

Former TV legend Delvene Delaney has spoken about the horrors of finding her young grandchildren floating on a mattress in flood waters. Parts of south-east Queensland and northern NSW were impacted greatly by torrential rain which saw some towns underwater. The 70-year-old former soap actress recalled the distressing moment she saw her grandsons floating on a mattress after their father’s home in Mullumbimby, a town in the Byron Shire, dipped under from the deluge. "I had to placate my two little grandsons, six and eight, from the trauma of being found on a floating mattress in the middle of the night in Mullumbimby as their dad's house went under," she told <a href="https://honey.nine.com.au/latest/australia-unites-red-cross-flood-appeal-2022-pat-rafter-mick-fanning-local-communtiy/c31c5b93-71f4-4adc-ae60-e3245566fde0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Nine Honey</a>. "My daughter was stranded in Murwillumbah for five days with no contact, we had no telephones, no internet. "So it was the fear of not knowing where everybody was and how safe they were that I'm sure was felt by all people in this area, not just those affected.” Despite the horrors of the floods, she commended people from all over for getting together and supporting one another. A television flood appeal by the Australian Red Cross raised more than $25 million for victims in NSW and Queensland, as communities slowly begin to clean up. Image: Nine Honey

Coriander and ice-cream: the cross over nobody asked for

McDonald’s in China has launched a very unusual dessert. It is safe to say fast-food fans are not convinced. The “Cilantro Sundae” is a limited-edition twist on McDonald’s popular ice cream dessert that is topped with a bright green coriander sauce and fresh “crumbs” of the distinctive herb. While it may seem like an early April fools prank, the menu item is actually very real, reportedly launching on February the 21st for a limited time until February the 25th. Coriander widely acknowledged as being super divisive with some loving it and most hating it, so it comes as no surprise social media has erupted like this. Twitter user @ZhugeEX appears to have started the debate around the unique combination after sharing a promotional photo of the McDonald’s item. “McDonald’s China launched a Cilantro Sundae special menu item today, which is interesting...” the video games expert told his 161,000 followers. Reaction came in thick and fast, with some declaring they were “desperate to try this terrible thing”. Customers have also been sharing snaps of the 6.6 Chinese Yuan dessert which is roughly $1.45 and has been grossed out in the process. “Cilantro is one of my favourite things so I would try it lol,” one stated. “Dear @Mcdonalds, when is coriander sundae ice cream coming to Singapore? Pretty pls...” one coriander fan pleaded. Others mocked the unusual colour, one even comparing it to the green of Ireland’s St Patrick’s Day. “I’m reporting this for violent and graphic content,” one user joked. Image: Instagram

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Is this the future of pedestrian crossings?

Pedestrian crossings in Melbourne have attracted global attention on TikTok, as Aussies are stunned by the new technology. A TikTok user in Victoria has shared footage of lights embedded into the footpath at crossings that change from red to green to reflect whether you can cross the road or not. The tech has been installed to help "phone zombies" from not getting in an accident in street traffic from staring down at a mobile device. The TikTok user Veronica shared footage of the lights she came across saying, "Bro, look how sick Melbourne is." "The light across the road is red, so the floor flashes red, and when it's green so you can walk - guess what? The floor flashes green!" The 12 second clip has racked up thousands of likes, with hundreds of comments being shocked by the relatively new technology. One person said, "I've been living in Melbourne my entire life and have seen none of these." "I literally live in the city and didn't know this, what?" another commented. A third user pointed out the lights were installed to protect people who were distracted by their mobile phones when crossing the road. "It's because people are looking at their phones while walking and are not alert while crossing." Despite the technology being seemingly rare, the in-ground lights, also known as Tactile Ground Surface Indicators (TGSI), have been installed around the globe since 2017. Places in Sydney and Melbourne have been adapting to the new tech, following in the likes of South Korea to increase safety around being aware on the road. Image credits: TikTok

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Kochie and Natt Barr shocked by "border jumpers" during live cross

The hosts of Sunrise have been left stunned during an interview on the Queensland border. David Koch and Natalie Barr were interviewing a pair of elderly sisters who have been separated since the last minute decision to close the NSW-QLD border. 72-year-old Susan Sice was turned away from her home state of Queensland after going to work in NSW, with officials saying she needed to fly back into the state and go into hotel quarantine. The pensioner is unable to afford these drastic measures, and is being forced to pay $600 a week to stay in a caravan park in NSW. Susan's sister Sandi told the Sunrise team that the “heart-wrenching” situation has left her sibling, who struggled to speak, “absolutely gutted”. “She can’t eat, can’t sleep, feels totally abandoned by our Queensland Government,” she said. “They don’t care, she’s got pets at home, she had been 10 minutes from the border doing half a day’s work and she can’t get home. It’s an absolute disgrace.” During the interview with the emotional sisters, Kochie and Nat were shocked as school children began jumping the barricade in the background to go to school. The children of essential workers are allowed to cross the border for face-to-face schooling. “Hang on, there are people behind you jumping the fence! They’re going to school and your sister can’t get back home,” Kochie said. “To expect her to fly in and go to quarantine and kids are jumping the fence to go to school just shows the hypocrisy and ludicrousy of it.” Sandi went on to explain that because her sister has been identified by the police, she is unable to simply hop the fence herself. "All she wants to do is drive home. They won’t allow her in. They expect you to fly in and go into quarantine. She’s here for god’s sake," she said. Nat and Kochie went on criticise the Queensland government as as “absolutely heartless,” "criminal,” and “just stupid”, saying “there’s got to be some flexibility”. “We can see Susan is suffering terribly, we understand that they’ve got border rules in place to keep Queenslanders safe but surely there are some exemptions and surely this is one of them,” Nat said. Susan has applied for a travel exemption to get into Queensland, but has yet to get a response from the government. After the interview aired on Sunrise, an anonymous viewer offered to pay for Susan's accommodation until she is allowed to return home in an incredible act of kindness. Image credit: Channel Seven

Are you a cat or a dog person?

Did you know your choice of pet reflects a lot more about you than you might think? Dr Sam Kovac is a general practice vet who sees pets and their owners all the time and he tells us what your choice of pet means. Dr Sam Kovac says pets have distinct personalities and your choice of pet shows if you’re an extrovert, disciplined, independent and much more. So - are you a dog or cat person? Here are five tips from Dr Kovac to find out: Are you an extrovert or introvert? Dogs are friendly and sociable and prefer to stay in ‘packs’ or family units. They love to make friends with others while taking a walk or even to tag along on the family vacation! If you’re someone who is more outgoing and enjoys social gatherings, you’re more likely to favour an equally extroverted canine companion. Cats, on the other hand, are more selective and prefer familiar and relaxing environments with their chosen humans. While this makes them seem indifferent to outsiders, cats are extremely affectionate with those they form a strong bond with. They are highly sensitive and display their affection in different ways. If you prefer a quiet, cosy evening at home lounging with your pet, a feline friend is your best match. Are you disciplined or free-spirited? Cat owners are more likely to be disciplined and appreciate routines and proper planning. Cats can get stressed when you move the furniture around or change your work hours. This makes them the best pets for people who follow a structured and well- planned lifestyle...like the person who plans itineraries hour by hour. Dogs, on the other hand, are free-spirited, and like their typical owners, have a strong sense of justice, self-discipline and loyalty, <img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="/nothing.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/9e123969fe6948b2992b49c7a4d83bfc" /><img style="width: 500px; height: 500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7843171/cat-photo-um.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/9e123969fe6948b2992b49c7a4d83bfc" /> Are you independent or do you like dependency? Caring for a furry friend is a hands-on job. Dog owners have more responsibility as dogs require more attention and human interaction than cats. Owing to their playful and active personalities, dogs love the outdoors and need to be taken on frequent walks and spend quality time with their owners. They are energetic and love to engage in playtime with their families. If you’re looking for a best friend to do fun activities with who dotes on you and openly shows affection – look no further than a precious pooch! While dogs thrive on physical closeness and contact, cats are more independent and value their personal space. Cats are incredibly undemanding pets and require less maintenance. They can be left alone for longer periods as they spend a large part of their day taking naps. They are the purrrrfect companions for those who crave affection but also want the space to do their own thing. If you’re busy during the day and enjoy the simple pleasures of cuddling up to your furry friend at night, you’re more likely to enjoy the company of a cat. When your kitty wants your attention, they may rub up against you or lick you to show they love you. Are you more commanding or patient? Dog owners are more likely to value the traits of loyalty and respect from their pets as dogs are more than happy to be dutiful pets as most are eager to please their owners. They’re easier to train than cats and willingly obey their owners’ commands, especially if treats are near! Dogs can pick up commands and partly understand human language if taught well. If you are assertive and like to be in charge, you will find dogs are the more agreeable pets. Cats are not as easy to train and need a more patient human companion who allows them to slowly learn what is acceptable or unacceptable behaviour. They don’t understand human commands like dogs, but are more intuitive creatures. Being from the family of predators, they do not like to be tamed and like to be given freedom to do as they please. That doesn’t mean your cat isn’t loyal to you, they are simply more inquisitive and like to learn for themselves without too much restriction. Don’t cramp their style! Do you like wet sloppy kisses or tiny ones? Cats and dogs are exceptionally affectionate and show this to humans in their own ways. Dogs’ express excitement when they see their owners and wag their tails madly, especially if they have been apart. They also lick their human friends and enjoy being petted and cuddled. If you are a physically affectionate person and like snuggling, who better to reciprocate your affection than a puppy? Cats approach humans and rub against them, gently headbutt them or expose their bellies to indicate their trust. Don’t be surprised if you find your cat licking your face – this is your cat’s version of giving you a ‘bath’. Cats lick to groom themselves and doing this is a sign that they consider you their own and are caring for you as you would for themselves. So, did you find yourself identifying more as a cat or dog person? These are the points to keep in mind when deciding the ideal pet for you and your family. And contrary to what cartoons have told you, cats and dogs can happily coexist in the same household and supply their owners with unconditional love and comfort. Dr Sam Kovac is a Sydney-based general practice vet who believes in extending the lifespan of animals through new treatments. He founded Southern Cross Vet, with clinics in St Peters, Bellevue Hill and Surry Hills. His website is: <a href="https://southerncrossvet.com.au/">https://southerncrossvet.com.au/</a> Photos: Courtesy of Southern Cross Vet

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Red Cross nurse accused of switching vaccines for salt solution

Northern German authorities are contacting thousands of people and informing them to get another COVID-19 jab after an investigation uncovered that a Red Cross nurse may have injected them with a saline solution. The nurse has been suspected of injecting salt solution into people's arms instead of a real dose at a vaccination centre in Friesland, a district near the North Sea Coast. "I am totally shocked by this episode," Sven Ambrosy, a local councillor, said on Facebook. Local authorities are in the process of contacting over 8,600 residents who may have been affected. <img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7836313/vaccine.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/1e3453d989304150b35c9bbfb0e97893" /> Image: Shutterstock Saline solution is harmless, however many people who got vaccinated in Germany in March and April are elderly people at high risk of catching the deadly viral disease. Sadly, the time frame that a majority of elderly people received the jab, coincides with when the nurse is suspected to have switched the vaccines. Police investigator Peter Beer, told German media that there is "a reasonable suspicion of danger". The nurse, who remains anonymous for now, made it clear on social media that she was sceptical of vaccines in social media posts, police investigators said.

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