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Lessons we can all learn from the "Forgotten Women"

<p>“The greatest underutilised resource in our economy is mothers in their childbearing years,” lawyer <a href="https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/soapbox/time-forgotten-women-australia-rise/">Kate Asher wrote in this publication</a> in 2017.</p> <p>“We have told them since they were little girls that they can achieve anything in life. But after they become mothers, they discover the cruel truth: the system is rigged against them. We all know these women. Many of us are these women – the Forgotten Women.”</p> <p>Sadly, things haven’t changed much in the years since. </p> <p>The Forgotten Women sacrifice so much financially to raise their children – often while also caring for elderly parents or in-laws. The full cost of these sacrifices don’t become apparent until years later. </p> <p><strong>Compounding effects </strong></p> <p>Time away from work means no contributions going into superannuation and inappropriate investments eat away at what they did have. Coming on top of the gender pay gap, it leaves a massive retirement shortfall. </p> <p>Many women returning to paid employment struggle to resume their previous career or full-time work, instead forced into less secure, lower paid part-time and casual jobs. </p> <p>If student loans weren’t repaid before leaving work, those debts have ballooned under years of indexation. </p> <p>We know women bear the brunt of domestic violence. Many marriages end in divorce once grown children leave home. Meanwhile, <a href="https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/population/deaths-australia/latest-release#:~:text=There%2520were%2520183%252C131%2520registered%2520deaths,by%252047%2520deaths%2520to%2520911.">far more men die in their 50s and 60s</a> – their pre-retirement years – than women, leaving many young widows. All these factors see women unexpectedly find their partner is no longer the source of income they had counted on. No wonder women over 55 are <a href="https://womensagenda.com.au/politics/local/advocates-call-on-support-for-older-women-and-dv-survivors-this-world-homelessness-day/">the fastest-growing demographic for homelessness</a> in Australia.</p> <p><strong>What can we learn from this?</strong></p> <p>There are many things we can take away from the traumatic experiences of these much-maligned women. Chief among them: don’t be complacent.  Maintain visibility of finances, and take action.</p> <p>As a financial adviser, I have met lots of women; many who only sought advice after finding themselves in a financial black hole. I’m also passionately involved with various causes that support disadvantaged women and those fleeing violence. What strikes me about these women is that they almost unanimously say “I never thought this could happen to me”.  And for many it can be preventable.</p> <p>We must be proactive in looking after ourselves – our current AND future selves – which means developing our own financial independence. Simply leaving money matters up to our husband or partner is not an option.</p> <p>We also need to get the message to friends, sisters, colleagues….</p> <p><strong>Breaking the cycle</strong></p> <p>Too many women have sadly come unstuck because they relied on weak financial foundations. Just like the foundations of a house, you need strong foundations on which to build financial independence:</p> <ul> <li>Emergency fund: a ‘get out’ fund should you ever need to flee danger (violence, natural disaster) or your household finances take an unexpected hit (redundancy, illness, another pandemic…). Not having readily available cash in an emergency can leave you stuck or forced to dip into investments or home equity, costing you dearly longer term.</li> <li>Spending and investment plan: more comprehensive than a budget, this plan offers visibility over your incomings, outgoings and assets. Visibility is key to cutting wasteful spending, staying on top of bills, and keeping you aligned on your money goals.  Avoid sexually transmitted debt.</li> <li>Insurances: a valuable back-up plan to offset losses and help you recover financially from a disaster – personal and home. For women who are stay-home mums or carers, of particular importance is that your partner has life and income protection insurance, ensuring you can keep a roof over your head should they die or become unable to work, and possibly trauma insurance for yourself.</li> <li>Superannuation: Knowing up-front that you will have nothing going into super while you are not working means you can minimise the shortfall. For instance, consider ‘pre-paying’ extra contributions while you are still earning and/or have your partner make spousal contributions during your time out of work (and have them claim the associated tax benefit), and consider spouse splitting.  But know what is happening in his super too, and if in your own business ensure contributions are made for both of you. </li> <li>Estate planning: Ensure your wishes are documented and your children are protected, both after you are gone and in the event you are ever incapacitated. Consider wills, guardianship, power of attorney, superannuation beneficiaries, and tax planning.</li> </ul> <p>With good foundations in place, you can then look to other ways to build your independence.</p> <p>Invest early. Savings and investments you make in your early working years can offset your lack of income once you leave the workforce and continue growing in value for your retirement.</p> <p>Consider upskilling. Distance education allows stay-home parents to obtain new skills and qualifications, enhancing their future employability and earning potential.</p> <p>Stay level-headed in a separation. I’ve seen many women forgo money and investments in favour of keeping the family home, only to realise down the track they can’t afford its upkeep on their own. Or they sign on the dotted line without advice.  Remember too that super is part of the joint assets – you could claim part of your ex’s super in the settlement, offsetting your time away from paid work.</p> <p>Finally, consider your approach to parenting. This is 2024: women don’t need to be the sole caregivers. Some couples now both go part-time, allowing them both to maintain a foot in the workforce (and continue earning income and super) while also enjoying time with their youngsters!</p> <p><em><strong>Helen Baker is a licensed Australian financial adviser and author of On Your Own Two Feet: The Essential Guide to Financial Independence for all Women. Helen is among the 1% of financial planners who hold a master’s degree in the field. Proceeds from book sales are donated to charities supporting disadvantaged women and children. Find out more at <a href="http://www.onyourowntwofeet.com.au/">www.onyourowntwofeet.com.au</a></strong></em></p> <p><em><strong>Disclaimer: The information in this article is of a general nature only and does not constitute personal financial or product advice. Any opinions or views expressed are those of the authors and do not represent those of people, institutions or organisations the owner may be associated with in a professional or personal capacity unless explicitly stated. Helen Baker is an authorised representative of BPW Partners Pty Ltd AFSL 548754.</strong></em></p> <p><em><strong>Image credits: Shutterstock </strong></em></p>

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Forgotten Bondi Junction hero's plea to PM

<p>An "unsung hero" still recovering in hospital after confronting Joel Cauchi during the Westfield Bondi Junction stabbings, has asked the Prime Minister if he too can be considered for citizenship. </p> <p>Muhammad Taha and Faraz Tahir were the two security guards who risked their lives to protect innocent bystanders when they confronted the killer on Saturday afternoon. </p> <p>Tahir lost his life in the process, while Taha remains in hospital after sustaining severe injuries. </p> <p>Taha, originally from Pakistan, recalled the events of the tragic day from his hospital bed, and described the moment they witnessed people fleeing in panic. </p> <p>“Faraz moved to assess the situation and to save the people; all of a sudden the guy came out,” he told <em>The Australian. </em></p> <p>“Faraz confronted him and was stabbed. After that, (Cauchi) jumped on me. I tried to defend but got stabbed.”</p> <p>Taha who is currently on a graduate visa that is due to expire within weeks, issued a desperate plea to the government asking them to give him an extension, following the public praise and a <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/finance/legal/prime-minister-s-extraordinary-offer-for-bollard-man" target="_blank" rel="noopener">confirmed visa extension</a> for French national Damien Guerot, nicknamed “bollard man” after the attacks.</p> <p>“As a direct victim of the incident, I believe I deserve recognition and consideration for citizenship,” Taha said. </p> <p>His request was also met with support from Sunrise’s Nat Barr who took the inquiry straight to Defence Minister Richard Marles on Thursday morning. </p> <p>“Mr Taha wants to know where his visa is at after the Prime Minister told the bollard hero that he can be in Australia as long as he likes ... Will Mr Taha also be allowed to stay?” she asked live on air.</p> <p>Marles said the immigration minister will work on a visa application, and said that Taha's act was "enormously brave". </p> <p>“Coming out of that tragedy are these incredible stories of bravery for which the nation is really greatly indebted and the circumstances of Mr Taha I’m sure will be worked through.”</p> <p>Shajar Ahmad, another colleague of Taha and Tahir, described them as “unsung heroes” of the bloody massacre.</p> <p>Albanese has responded to the request and said that a permanent visa would be “granted to (Guerot) today”, and that Taha’s case will also be considered.</p> <p>“(Taha) confronted this guy... It just shows extraordinary courage, these are people who ... not thinking of themselves, were putting themselves in danger protecting Australians they didn’t know, just people going about their shopping,” Albanese told Adelaide radio<em> 5AA</em>.</p> <p>“And that’s the sort of courage that we want to say thank you to, frankly. Those extraordinary stories of bravery in amongst the carnage and tragedy that we saw on Saturday.</p> <p>“It’s a bit of light in amongst the darkness that you saw these extraordinary acts.”</p> <p><em>Images: news.com.au</em></p> <p> </p>

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"Forgotten pizza cook" Pete Evans' wild new look

<p dir="ltr">Former Seven personality Pete Evans has made an unexpected appearance on social media, though many took a moment longer than usual to realise who it was they were looking at in the clip.</p> <p dir="ltr">The former chef and <em>My Kitchen Rules</em> judge was a far cry from the polished persona audiences had come to expect from his days at the helm of the hit cooking competition, roaming through an outdoor kitchen in a ‘Food is Medicine’ t-shirt and unexpected mullet cut.</p> <p dir="ltr">The footage marked a new chapter in Evans’ public fall from grace, and as one account sharing the content wrote, it had “captured a quick raw video of the set up” for a cooking retreat with eight guests and “approx 25 recipes”.</p> <p dir="ltr">It did provide some insight into Evans’ new ‘career’ path, with the chef having turned his back on the entertainment industry in 2020, after 11 years as a household name hosting <em>My Kitchen Rules</em>. </p> <p dir="ltr">His controversial opinions on health - and his mounting support in conspiracy theories as well as his non-scientifics views - had initially turned attention his way, but it was his take on the global COVID-19 pandemic that sealed his fate. </p> <p dir="ltr">Also in 2020, Evans received a $25,000 fine from the TGA for his part in peddling a $15,000 ‘Biocharger’ device with the incorrect claim that it could combat the coronavirus.</p> <p dir="ltr">Evans was quickly removed from social media - namely Facebook and Instagram - for spreading misinformation during the pandemic, and lost 15 different sponsors in just 38 hours after sharing a meme that contained a neo-Nazi symbol with his remaining followers. It was estimated that the latter act alone could cost Evans millions of dollars.</p> <p dir="ltr">In the time since, Evans has purchased a $1 million tourist ‘healing’ retreat close to Byron Bay, where he offers the likes of ‘fasting retreats’ - charging $2250 a head for a “5-day juice, water, and froth fast” with Evans.</p> <p dir="ltr">When news of the venture broke on social media, opinion poured in thick and fast, with most condemning the experience. </p> <p dir="ltr">However, it wasn’t enough to keep Evans from returning to the internet, with the 50-year-old launching his presence on the alternative platform, Telegram, where he shares the likes of detail on his retreats, his experience with bitcoin, anti-vaccination takes, and right-wing political opinion.</p> <p dir="ltr">As one user wrote in response - and on behalf of the majority - to the fresh footage of the disgraced chef, “I won’t have what he’s having”. </p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Obviously vaccines are bad. Not ‘licking toads’ though. That’s cool. Forgotten pizza cook Pete Evans continues to have a normal one. <a href="https://twitter.com/krunchymoses?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@krunchymoses</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/petesscience?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@petesscience</a> <a href="https://t.co/a5fDzGIups">pic.twitter.com/a5fDzGIups</a></p> <p>— Cam (@camliveshere) <a href="https://twitter.com/camliveshere/status/1664565941219508225?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 2, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">“This is a hard second-hand cringe,” one said. </p> <p dir="ltr">“And here I was thinking that scone of his couldn't get any more offensive,” another said. “I was wrong.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“So funny, and sad at same time hope he is ok,” one wrote, “but I have had 4 vax, travelled [the] world twice in ]the last 12 months, kept a good job and have healthy friends and fam around me. Pete's approach hmmmm”.</p> <p dir="ltr">And as someone else pointed out., “he seems quite short of breath after placing a few small sticks under the pizza oven. Not a great advert for his lifestyle.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Twitter, Facebook</em></p>

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"Never forgotten": ABBA pay tribute to fallen bandmate

<p>Lasse Wellander, long-term guitarist for ABBA, has passed away at 70 after a short battle with cancer. </p> <p>Lasse’s family made the heartbreaking announcement on social media, writing that it was “with indescribable sadness that we have to announce that our beloved Lasse has fallen asleep. </p> <p>“Lasse recently fell ill in what turned out to be spread cancer and early on Good Friday he passed away, surrounded by his loved ones.</p> <p>“You were an amazing musician and humble as few, but above all you were a wonderful husband, father, brother, uncle and grandfather. Kind, safe, caring and loving... and so much more, that cannot be described in words. A hub in our lives, and it's unbelievable that we now have to live on without you.</p> <p>“We love and miss you so much.”</p> <p><iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fverywellander%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0TSYwXc842w9nvLQe2FDhjCPK4RpgNH9zqxMQuWgMibi582Fn9vxyWMYmREj3f5Wkl&show_text=true&width=500" width="500" height="680" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>Shortly after, ABBA released a statement of their own, paying emotional tribute to their late bandmate. Lasse played an “integral role” in the group’s success through the ‘70s and ‘80s, and featured on 24 recordings, including a number of their greatest hits - from the likes of ‘Knowing Me, Knowing You’ to ‘The Winner Takes It All’, ‘Crazy World’, and ‘Thank You for the Music’.</p> <p>“Lasse was a dear friend, a fun guy and a superb guitarist,” the band wrote on Facebook. “The importance of his creative work in the recording studio as well as his rock solid guitar work on stage was immense. </p> <p>“We mourn his tragic and premature death and remember the kind words, the sense of humour, the smiling face, the musical brilliance of the man who played such an integral role in the ABBA story. </p> <p>“He will be deeply missed and never forgotten.” </p> <p>The tribute was signed off by Agnetha [Fältskog], Björn [Ulvaeus], Anni-Frid ‘Frida’ [Lyngstad], and Benny [Andersson] - the same bandmates that Lasse began recording with in October 1974. </p> <p><iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fphoto.php%3Ffbid%3D762709755212655%26set%3Da.274452710705031%26type%3D3&show_text=true&width=500" width="500" height="397" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>As well as playing on all eight of ABBA’s albums, the late musician also experienced touring with the group, performing to sold-out crowds all over. In 2007, he even had the honour of working on the soundtrack for Mamma Mia!, a movie based on some of the band’s most popular songs. </p> <p>And in 2021, Lasse contributed to ABBA’s <em>Voyager </em>album, a reunion work that saw all four key members return with 10 new tracks to share with fans. </p> <p>Fans that have joined the band - and Lasse’s family - in paying tribute on social media, honouring his work and his vast contributions to the world of music. </p> <p>“Such sad news,” wrote one. “My condolences go to his family, friends and all his fellow musicians. RIP Lasse … Thank You For The Music Lasse.”</p> <p>“Such a sad loss. I still remember him on stage in Dortmund 1979, what a great concert, what a great musician,” shared another. “May he rest in peace.”</p> <p>“Thank you for the music Lasse. Your music will live on,” promised one. “Deepest condolences to you all and his family. We are mourning all around the world with you.”</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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“Never be forgotten”: Uncle of NRL star drowns while saving swimmers

<p>The man who died, Talitiga Taupau, was trying to save the lives of two others caught in a dangerous rip with him.</p> <p>The father-of-six entered the rip at Cronulla’s Shelly Beach on Saturday afternoon. One swimmer made it back to the beach, while Talitiga and one other were pulled unconscious from the water. </p> <p>Talitiga died at the scene, while the second unconscious man was revived and taken to St George Hospital in a critical condition after allegedly being underwater for three minutes. The swimmer who returned to shore was reported to be in a stable condition and receiving further treatment. </p> <p>Talitiga’s death brings the state’s summer drowning toll to 14 (with the count commencing on December 1). </p> <p>The 44-year-old has been identified as the uncle of Brisbane Broncos player Martin “Marty” Taupau. </p> <p>“It's really sad that this has happened but he will never be forgotten for his actions," Marty told 9News of his uncle’s passing. Marty was reportedly driving to Brisbane with his family for training with his team when he heard the news. </p> <p>“There’s just so much happening,” he added, “so much to process.” </p> <p>Talitiga and the second man were pulled from the water by nearby lifeguards. Joel Wiseman, director of lifesaving for Surf Life Saving NSW, stressed the strain on volunteer lifesavers across the state in the wake of the recent drownings, including the tragedy at Shelly Beach on the weekend. </p> <p>“We are experiencing one of our busiest summers ever with huge rescue numbers,” Wiseman stated, “and our volunteers have put in a massive effort to try to keep people safe along the coast.</p> <p>"Despite the growing drowning toll, volunteers and lifeguards should be very proud of what they've achieved so far this summer. There are a combination of factors making this summer so deadly, including people taking risks, alcohol consumption, and crowded beaches which can lead beachgoers to seek out unfamiliar and unpatrolled locations.</p> <p>"Rip currents remain the number one coastal hazard and the 14 coastal drowning deaths this summer have all occurred at unpatrolled locations."</p> <p>An investigation is underway into the latest drowning, with Sutherland Shire police set to prepare a report for the coroner. </p> <p>Talitiga Taupau is being remembered as a hero for his actions, with tributes flowing for his family.</p> <p>Marty Taupau posted one such tribute to his Instagram, sharing 9News’ segment on his uncle’s story with the caption “Manuia lau malaga uncle“ (Have a good trip uncle) and the hashtag “hero”. </p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; 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The forgotten benefits of a ‘bad’ memory

<p>Memory is the essence of our psychological functioning, essential for every move we make – getting dressed, having breakfast, driving to work, doing a crossword, making a cup of tea. Nothing we do in our conscious daily lives does not require memory.</p> <p>So, given our reliance on it, why is it that memory sometimes – or often – lets us down? And is this something to be concerned about, or might it actually be healthy?</p> <p>Consider some of the many ways in which our memories feel like they’re not working properly. There’s the name you’re told on meeting someone new which you forget within seconds; the act of going upstairs to get something and then forgetting what you went there for; or blissfully remembering a foreign holiday several years ago without any memory of the incident at the airport that upset the family.</p> <p>It’s probably true that everyone can relate to each of these memory “failures” – and indeed they are failures. But it may be that we should not be overly concerned about them.</p> <p>The various types of forgetting involve different issues. For example, sometimes it’s clear that we simply haven’t set a proper memory down in our mind in the first place, like when we forget why we went upstairs.</p> <p>In other cases there is clearly a memory there, but it’s just not retrievable – such as when a name you know is on the tip of your tongue. Or perhaps the memory has been altered in some regard along the way, when you’re convinced something happened on a Thursday, yet all the facts point to it being a Tuesday.</p> <p>So what is memory for, and why is forgetfulness such a prevalent experience? Memory serves to give us a record of our lives, to situate us in the present and to plan for the future. It is essential to a sense of self. And while memory lapses can be frustrating, there are ways around them, which can sometimes be beneficial to that sense of self.</p> <p>If I am constantly forgetting where I put my keys, I develop a routine to deal with the situation. It’s a simple but effective solution which requires practice (and remembering to enact): always put your keys in the same place.</p> <p>Or, if I want to remember someone’s name, I ensure that on meeting them, I make an extra effort to register their face, say their name aloud, and perhaps try to associate it with someone else of the same name. (Apparently one of former US president Bill Clinton’s strengths as a charismatic politician was that he <a href="https://www.oprah.com/omagazine/oprah-interviews-president-bill-clinton/2">always remembered people’s names</a> – but this certainly wouldn’t have come without a level of deliberate concentration.</p> <p>And if I remember a totally happy holiday and repress the negative incident at the airport, this actually helps me feel better about myself and my experience. I have subconsciously edited out the negative aspect to create a more positive recollection.</p> <p>Another interesting example of this kind of beneficial “self-editing” is where long-term couples will say to their other half: “I love you more today than yesterday.” When psychologists examined this concept, they found it not to be entirely true. Instead, <a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1999-00166-004">they found</a> that long-term couples have a commitment to each other that is important for their own personal well being. So if I feel I love you more than yesterday, it is ultimately beneficial to feeling positive about myself – even if it is not objectively true.</p> <p><strong>Remember to forget</strong></p> <p>Most people’s memories fail them regularly, and this is because our minds have a limited ability to process all the information in our environment. It simply is not feasible to remember everything we experience.</p> <p>That said, there are rare cases of people who claim to have “super memories”. They can remember what the weather was like on March 6 2016, for example, or what they had for lunch on the September 15 2004. One of those “super mnemonists” <a href="https://thepsychologist.bps.org.uk/volume-26/edition-10/interview-would-you-want-super-memory">has described</a> the ability as “a curse [which] plays over and over in my mind”.</p> <p>The reality of remembering everything would be an overwhelming experience. So for most of us, forgetting things is not just normal – but desirable.</p> <p>Regular memory failures can often be deliberately and methodically overcome, while changes in memory over time are often due to people maintaining a positive sense of self. And that’s worth remembering.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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7 forgotten manners every parent should teach their child

<p>An important part of raising your child is teaching them good manners that they are able to apply not only around you, but also when they are on their own.</p> <p>Being polite can set your child up for success later in life.</p> <p>Beyond the basic “please” and “thank you,” you want your child to be able to show respect to their elders and know how to be a polite guest.</p> <p>Enforce these manners from an early age, and your child will catch on in no time.</p> <p><strong>1. "Please" and "thank you"</strong></p> <p>Teach your child to always say, “Please” when asking for something and “Thank you” when receiving something or someone has helped them.<strong><br /></strong></p> <p><strong><span>2. "Excuse me"</span></strong></p> <p>Teach them to say, “Excuse me” when they need to get through a crowd, bump into someone or want to get someone’s attention.</p> <p><strong>3. Please don't interrupt</strong></p> <p>Teach them to not interrupt, whether it be interrupting a conversation between two people that they are not a part of (unless it is an emergency) or when someone is speaking to them.</p> <p><strong>4. No unkind comments</strong></p> <p>Show them how it’s impolite to comment on other people’s characteristics or physical appearances, unless if it is a compliment.</p> <p><strong>5. Always ask for permission</strong></p> <p>Teach your child to always ask permission. It’s important that they understand if they aren’t sure about taking or using something, it is always better to ask first.</p> <p><strong>6. Shoes off!</strong></p> <p>Teach your child to take their shoes off whenever they enter someone's home/</p> <p><strong>7.</strong><strong> Don't litter</strong></p> <p>Teach them not to litter and how important it is to keep our earth clean.</p> <p><span>Once your child learns these important manners, they’ll have the drive to become even more courteous as they grow up.</span></p> <p><em>Written by Morgan Cutolo. </em><em>This article first appeared in <a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/17-forgotten-manners-every-parent-should-teach-their-child">Reader’s Digest</a>. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V">here’s our best subscription offer</a>.</em></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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Book inscriptions reveal the forgotten stories of female war heroes

<p><em><strong>Lauren Alex O' Hagan is a PhD candidate in Language and Communication, Cardiff University.</strong></em></p> <p>Open up a book from the late 19th or early 20th century and chances are that you will find an <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://edwardianculture.com/2015/05/13/edwardian-encounters-the-edwardian-bookplate/" target="_blank">inscription inside the front cover</a></strong></span>. Often, they are nothing more than handwritten names that state who owned the book, though some are a little more elaborate, with personalised designs used to denote hobbies and interests, tell jokes or <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://theconversation.com/for-the-edwardians-bookplates-were-as-rebellious-as-modern-day-tattoos-70308" target="_blank">even warn against theft</a></strong></span> of the book.</p> <p>While seemingly insignificant markers of ownership, book inscriptions offer important material evidence of the various institutions, structures and tastes of Edwardian society, and act as tangible indicators of class and social mobility in early 20th century Britain. They can also reveal vast amounts of information on how both attitudes of ownership and readership varied according to geographical location, gender, age and occupation at this time.</p> <p>My research involves collecting these inscriptions from second-hand books and working with archives to delve into the human stories behind these ownership marks. I am particularly interested in “everyday” Edwardians – the miner, the servant, the clerk – who are so often forgotten by time, yet played an essential role in ensuring Britain ran smoothly during the war years.</p> <p>My latest work has focused on the stories of the female heroes of World War I. They weren’t fighting on the battlefield but their contributions at home and abroad were nothing short of incredible. Using the inscription marks they left in books, censuses, local history, and Imperial War Museum archives, I have tracked several untold tales, two of which I’ve written about here.</p> <p><strong>Elizabeth Veronica Nisbet</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://livesofthefirstworldwar.org/lifestory/5150825" target="_blank">Elizabeth Veronica Nisbet</a></strong></span> was born in 1886 in Newcastle. The daughter of a colliery secretary, Nisbet was part of the lower-middle class that emerged in Britain at the end of the Victorian era. She studied art at Gateshead College before serving as a nurse with St John Ambulance and the Royal Victoria Infirmary.</p> <p>In 1913, Nisbet’s father gave her a copy of the biography of cartoonist <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oxfordbibliographies.com/view/document/obo-9780199799558/obo-9780199799558-0024.xml" target="_blank">George Du Maurier</a></strong></span>, and inscribed it “with dear love”. Du Maurier was well-known for his <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://punch.photoshelter.com/search?I_DSC=george+du+maurier&amp;I_SDATE%5BMM%5D=&amp;I_SDATE%5BDD%5D=DD&amp;I_SDATE%5BYYYY%5D=YYYY&amp;I_EDATE%5BMM%5D=&amp;I_EDATE%5BDD%5D=DD&amp;I_EDATE%5BYYYY%5D=YYYY&amp;I_CITY=&amp;I_STATE=&amp;I_COUNTRY_ISO=&amp;I_ORIENTATION=&amp;I_IS_RELEASED=&amp;I_IS_PRELEASED=&amp;_CB_I_PR=t&amp;_CB_I_PU=t&amp;_CB_I_RF=t&amp;_CB_I_RM=t&amp;I_SORT=RANK&amp;I_DSC_AND=t&amp;V_ID=&amp;G_ID=&amp;C_ID=&amp;_ACT=search" target="_blank">cartoons in the satirical magazine Punch</a></strong></span>, which <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://museumstjohn.org.uk/collections/vad-nurse-veronica-nisbets-scrapbook/" target="_blank">inspired Nisbet’s own artwork</a></strong></span>. Just one year after receiving the book, World War I broke out and Nisbet headed to France to aid wounded soldiers at St John Ambulance Brigade Hospital in Étaples. This hospital was the largest to serve the British Expeditionary Force in France and treated over 35,000 casualties.</p> <p>Throughout these troubled times, Nisbet’s passion for art was her salvation: she kept a scrapbook of cartoons, sketches and photos, which provide an insight into wartime Étaples and the vital work of the female nurses. Looking at her artwork, it is clear that she was strongly influenced by the cartoon style of Du Maurier, suggesting that the book remained a treasured artefact to her while she was serving in France.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">This <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/WorldBookDay?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#WorldBookDay</a> we're enjoying the many exciting books in our collection, including a WWI scrapbook of cartoons by VAD Veronica Nisbet! <a href="https://t.co/APSawcW5h1">pic.twitter.com/APSawcW5h1</a></p> — Museum of St John (@StJohnsGate) <a href="https://twitter.com/StJohnsGate/status/837278831354359808?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 2, 2017</a></blockquote> <p>Today Nisbet’s work is kept at the Museum of the Order of St John in London. After the war, she returned to Newcastle and worked again as a nurse until the 1920s when she became a full-time artist, travelling regularly to the US and Canada to showcase her work. She died in 1979 at the age of 93.</p> <p><strong>Gabrielle de Montgeon</strong></p> <p>Born in France in 1876, Gabrielle de Montgeon moved to England in 1901 and lived in Eastington Hall in Upton-on-Severn throughout her adult life. She was the daughter of a count of Normandy and part of the upper class of Edwardian society.</p> <p>Her affluence is showcased in the privately-commissioned bookplate found inside her copy of the 1901 Print Collector’s Handbook. The use of floral wreaths and decorative banderoles in her plate – both features of the fashionable art nouveau style of the period – mimic the style of many of the prints in her book. This demonstrates the close relationship that Edwardians had between reading and inscribing.</p> <p>Stepping out of her upper-class life, during World War I, de Montgeon served in the all-female <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://livesofthefirstworldwar.org/lifestory/5145722" target="_blank">Hackett-Lowther Ambulance Unit</a></strong></span> as an assistant director to Toupie Lowther – the famous British tennis player who had established the unit. The unit consisted of 20 cars and 25-30 women drivers, who operated close to the front lines of battles in Compiegne, France. De Montgeon donated ambulances and was responsible for the deployment of drivers. After the war, she returned to Eastington Hall and led a quiet life, taking up farming, before passing away in 1944, aged 68.</p> <p>Considering the testing circumstances of war, the survival of these two books (and their inscriptions) is a remarkable feat. While buildings no longer stand, communities have passed on, and grass on the bloody battlefields grows once more, these books keep the memories of Nisbet and de Montgeon alive. They stand as a testimony of the unsettling victory of material objects over the temporality of the people that once owned them and the places in which they formerly dwelled.</p> <p><em>Written by Lauren Alex O' Hagan. Republished with permission of <a href="http://theconversation.com/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Conversation</span></strong></a>. </em><img width="1" height="1" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/77647/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-advanced" alt="The Conversation"/></p>

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5 dinner table rules most people have forgotten

<p>Most of us learn our table manners from the rest of our family, and depending upon how strict our upbringing was, it can result in varied knowledge of subtle dinnertime signals. Today we’re going to take a look at some traditional table manners guidelines that will show to those in the know that you know exactly how to behave during a meal. Those who don’t follow the same ‘rules’ probably won’t care a jot.</p> <p><strong>1. Don’t put a used utensil back on the table</strong></p> <p>Once a utensil has been used, it shouldn’t touch the table again. Most of us will rest the handle of the knife and fork on the table, leaning up against the plate. But the correct way to place them down while you take a drink or have a breather is to place them entirely upon your plate.</p> <p><strong>2. How to place your utensils after your meal</strong></p> <p>Once you’re finished with your food, place the knife and fork side by side diagonally on the plate (handles at four o’clock). Remember to keep the blade of the knife facing the centre of the plate – not pointing outwards.</p> <p><strong>3. When it comes to multiple utensils, work your way in</strong></p> <p>When confronted with multiple layers of cutlery, the general rule is to start at the outside and work your way in. Anything placed <em>above</em> the plate is intended for dessert.</p> <p><strong>4. Where to put your napkin</strong></p> <p>Your napkin or serviette should be placed onto your lap when you take your seat, or once your drink arrives, and should remain there for the duration of the meal. A couple of exceptions:</p> <ul> <li>When leaving the table during the meal, you should place the napkin on the table to the left of your fork. While some prefer to leave it on the seat, this could end up soiling your clothes, defeating the purpose of the napkin in the first place.</li> <li>If you are eating something messy, which could easily create a mess on your outfit (think spaghetti), it’s acceptable to tuck the napkin into your collar.</li> </ul> <p>When the meal is over, place the napkin onto the table.</p> <p><strong>5. When in doubt – follow the leader</strong></p> <p>If you’re unsure what a certain utensil should be used for, or how much of a certain dish you should take, a discreet look to your host should give you an idea of what to do.</p> <p>What’s a rule for the dining table you always follow, no matter what?</p>

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7 good manners that should never be forgotten

<p>A lot has changed in the world in the past few decades. There have been various fads and cultural norms that have influenced the manners and etiquette rules that people use.</p> <p>Here are seven manners that should never go out of style.</p> <p><strong>1. Never speak with your mouth full</strong></p> <p>Not only is it distracting when someone talks with their mouth full but it can also be off-putting. If you know you have something important to say during dinner conversation, pace your eating.</p> <p><strong>2. Never use your own spoon for the sugar</strong></p> <p>Multiple people will be wanting to get sugar. It only takes a few seconds to get another spoon from the kitchen, if one is not present.</p> <p><strong>3. Hold the door for people behind you  </strong></p> <p>It’s never nice when you are walking behind someone and a door slams into you because they didn’t hold it open. Holding the door shows that you are friendly and thoughtful.</p> <p><strong>4. Remember people’s names</strong></p> <p>In a society that is “connecting” with so many people online and offline, remembering someone’s names shows your value and respect for them.</p> <p><strong>5. Look people in the eye when talking to them</strong></p> <p>When you look at technology instead of a person, you are essentially saying you don’t find what they are saying is interesting.</p> <p><strong>6. Welcome new neighbours</strong></p> <p>If someone moves in near you, introduce yourself and bring a small welcoming gift. Your gesture will go a long way and is the perfect opportunity to form a new friendship.</p> <p><strong>7. Leave a place as you found it</strong></p> <p>It is always appreciated when you value someone else’s property.</p> <p>What manners do you think are most important? Let us know in the comments below. </p>

Retirement Life

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The forgotten gold mine in Queensland

<p><em><strong>Anne Sinclair, 68, was born in England but spent most of her youth in Darwin, Northern Territory. Now in a position to travel and explore the world, Anne looks forward to sharing her personal experience and encourages others to step out and have fun.  </strong></em></p> <p>If you are travelling along the central coastal region through Queensland, and if you are up to discovering yet another great treasure – then please, please include a trip to Mount Morgan. The Mine stands, only about a 30 minute drive inland from Rockhampton.</p> <p>Described as revealing a ‘dramatic landscape’ the Arthur Timms Lookout shows stark proof of this old Gold mining town, and the aging Gold Mine. In the foreground on this landscape is the gold room – reported as being constructed in 1884.</p> <p>The Mine is steeped in glorious history – one only wishes one could paint and recreate this glorious historical vision. The Mine buildings were built in three stages of construction; and besides the general office, also offered some workers their accommodation.</p> <p>The main stack was completed in 1905, using up to 750,000 bricks, and is Australia’s tallest free standing brick chimney. This stack was built to direct fumes away from the town.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/34567/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (135)"/> </p> <p>The staff, working at the Railway Station and Information Centre building in Mt. Morgan - which was built in 1898; will provide mud maps – encouraging you to tour the town and view the many unique and heritage listed buildings. They eagerly highlight the enormous role Mt. Morgan Gold Mine had played during the first and second world wars.</p> <p>The Victor Jones suspension bridge was so named, after the first Australian soldier to die overseas in the imperial service.</p> <p>Built in 1899 and Heritage listed the Queensland National Hotel tower was used as a spotting tower during World War two. This hotel closed in 1992 and is now up for sale – if anyone is interested?</p> <p>The Gold Mine made such a mighty contribution to the health, wealth and growth of Australia – that, trying to absorb all of this history, I have experienced a little sadness for those many unsung mining heroes!</p> <p>The site of Arthur Timms Lookout invites you to take a moment ....to close your eyes. You are also invited to imagine the laughter of children, the hum of machinery – and to picture the men scurrying across the incredibly large landscape, of this mining site.</p> <p>Then, when you have lost yourself in this magical moment – imagine the hooter sounding – and the relieved cries and sighs of workers - knocking off for the day. Feel that moment!</p> <p>Depending on your needs – accommodation for the night or two (or more) is readily available. Staying at the Leichhardt Hotel for a mere $30 a night – the building takes you back to the 1950’s with high timber ceilings – such a delight. There is a camping area – and other hotels which offer you a bed for the night. It’s all here.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/34568/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (136)"/></p> <p>There is so much to see and take in. Little Ireland is there – with the area boasting all Irish street names. And, built in 1890 and located on the corner of East and Bridge streets, is a General Store, run by the same Chinese family for generations. Just such an amazing mixture and blending of cultural contributions.</p> <p>One of the oldest Primary Schools in Queensland – opened here in 1887 as mixed school for boys and girls. You will find this Primary school, standing on East Street. One can only imagine the contributions of the children educated at this wonderful school – as they entered adulthood and passed their cultural upbringing down their ancestral lines.</p> <p>It’s not too hard to have mixed emotions as the Mt Morgan Gold Mine stands proudly...perhaps a little older, perhaps a little rusty around the edges – but never will it lose its gift to Australia and the enormous contribution to the wealth of our great nation.  </p>

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Exploring Australia’s forgotten tourist capital

<p>Poor little Canberra. How can this town awash with political hot air even begin to compete with the class and cool of Melbourne? Or the trendy bustle of Sydney?</p> <p>Canberra has long shouldered a reputation for being a dull town, just a glorified sheep station with lights, full of politicians and civil servants who cram the highway exits every Friday night clamouring for the excitement of Sydney just a few hours' drive away.</p> <p>But locals, who are intensely proud of their patch, say things are changing. Set halfway between the two big smokes of Australia, Canberra is reinventing itself and making a play for the tourist dollar in a bid to shake off its 102-year-old stuffy reputation.</p> <p>And as long as visitors aren't expecting a big-city-style bright-lights experience, the capital has a lot of charm and history on offer.</p> <p>I land in Canberra on a smoking hot summer's day, navigate the brand new airport to meet my travel companion, my mother, and we make our way through the wide streets. Endless roundabouts shape the city and link the extensive parliamentary zone with the shopping district and CBD.</p> <p>For someone with close to no sense of direction and a broken GPS system in the car, I find Canberra remarkably easy to navigate - perhaps because it has been meticulously planned. Streets are laid out in a wheel-and-spoke pattern centred on the expansive Lake Burley Griffin, named after the American architect who designed the capital.</p> <p><img width="499" height="265" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/24394/shutterstock_356460803_499x265.jpg" alt="canberra (1)"/></p> <p>My mother is instantly impressed with how contemporary, clean and in order everything seems and how polite the drivers are.</p> <p>We arrive at our hotel, the heritage Hotel Kurrajong in the parliamentary zone, after about 15 minutes of driving. Nothing around the city is further than that and even at rush hour, the traffic is completely manageable.</p> <p>The parliamentary zone is made up of government buildings, monuments and leafy streets. Young civil servants hurry back and forth between the buildings and there aren't many restaurants or much nightlife on this side of the lake. The city centre would probably be a better option for those looking for a livelier evening scene.</p> <p>The next morning, we take the pleasant 15-minute walk to the National Gallery of Australia to check out the world's largest collection of Aboriginal and Torres Strait artworks.</p> <p>The lakeside gallery is a a multi-level, modern rectangle of a building surrounded by a beautiful sculpture garden and a small reflective body of water.</p> <p>When we visit, the featured exhibition is Retrospective by American artist James Turrell, who plays beautifully with light. His dedicated light installations seem to take away all perspective and sense of stability.</p> <p>The exhibition is on until June, with the centrepiece a dramatic light capsule called Bindu shards in which the viewer is treated to a 15-minute personal colour experience like no other. Bookings are essential for this particular piece and though I didn't get to try it, I hear it is mind-blowing.</p> <p>We decide to head back to the hotel to grab the car before driving to the city centre. The distance from the parliamentary zone to the centre of the Braddon shopping district is about 5 kilometres and under normal circumstances probably a pleasant lakeside walk, but with summer's searing heat and the threat of thunderstorms looming, I opt to take the car.</p> <p>Wherever you look in Canberra there are signs of development. Restaurants, boutique shops and apartments stretch out on the south side of the water, the casino is being revamped to draw in high-end clients and heritage hotels like Kurrajong are undergoing expensive refurbishment.</p> <p><img width="499" height="265" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/24393/shutterstock_398035714_499x265.jpg" alt="canberra"/></p> <p>Braddon is Canberra's busiest suburb and, as the locals tell me, the most fun one too. A recently opened collection of food vans called the Hamlet is crowded with casual diners the night we visit. The Hamlet is being touted as a modern village and will feature music and eventually markets.</p> <p>For dinner we eat at one of the most lauded restaurants in the Braddon district, Italian and Sons. The simple fare and constant Italian chatter coming from the noisy kitchen is a sure sign this meal is going to be authentic. I order the bruschetta to start - think crusty bread piled high with the juiciest tomatoes and stretchiest mozzarella, crowned with a regal-looking basil leaf. The spaghetti carbonara which follows could rival many trattorie in Rome.</p> <p>The packed-out restaurant is obviously a hit with Canberrans and bookings are essential to avoid a wait. From what I hear from locals, stylish eateries like this are becoming more common in Canberra as restaurateurs try to tap into a wealthy customer base that previously didn't have much to do in the evenings.</p> <p>Certainly Lonsdale Rd, where the restaurant is situated, is bustling with late-night crowds, restaurants and bars as we head home.</p> <p>The next morning, we plan to take in the sights from above for a better understanding of how the town is laid out. I'm told Canberra is one of the only places in the world where you can float over a government house in a hot air balloon.</p> <p>For those hesitant about trusting their lives to a balloon, a creaky wicker basket and a few LPG bottles, I will admit this experience is not for the faint-hearted. But once the balloon lifts off the ground, the sensation is so surreal that all phobias are left behind.</p> <p>From above, the greens and blues of the lake, the expanse of the surrounding vegetation and the hills in the distance are truly stunning. Canberra's highways wind together and cradle the shimmering lake in a spaghetti formation. Kangaroos and wallabies bounce around in the eucalyptus forests and we can see far-off hills and wineries in the distance. The morning traffic is beginning to make its way around the city.</p> <p>Everything is silent from above, punctuated only occasionally by the roar of the gas as the pilot steers the balloon up and down.</p> <p>Our guide from Balloon Aloft points out the landmarks and sails us near the lake's surface for a close-up glimpse of a local kayaker who photographs the balloons every morning for the<em> Canberra Times</em>. We wave and he waves back.</p> <p>It's at once a serene yet adrenaline-filled experience as we float up and down with our sister balloon. We are told there is a surprise marriage proposal on the other vessel this morning - Balloon Aloft has a small two-person balloon for those special occasions when you want to be alone and skimming the clouds.</p> <p>After touching down and having a celebratory glass of champagne, we decide it's time to get out of town and explore the adjacent wineries and destination-dining spots of New South Wales, just a 30-minute drive away.</p> <p>The roads around Canberra are amid quintessential Australian bush. Eucalyptus trees give way to vineyards stretching out across dry, rust-coloured paddocks.</p> <p>The Barton Highway takes you straight from Canberra's city centre out to Murrumbateman wine country.</p> <p>We stop at family-owned Poachers Pantry for lunch - a smokehouse, winery, wedding venue, farm shop and restaurant in one building. Set back from the main road, a spacious, well-manicured garden leads us to a beautiful patio and rustic restaurant where the menu features offerings like confit duck leg, barramundi fillet and slow-cooked lamb shoulder. I try my first ever plate of kangaroo, which is beautifully presented with shallots, artichokes and tomato jam.</p> <p>We meander along country roads back to the city and stop off at the historic village of Hall, an adorable collection of buildings and general stores which dates back to the 1800s.</p> <p>It's obvious Canberra has undergone some significant changes over the past few years, aimed at rolling out the welcome mat for a potential influx of tourists.</p> <p>For those after a modern, clean and relaxing city break with beautiful vistas and wineries thrown in, no big-city dramas and a first-rate dining scene, Canberra should be high on the list.</p> <p><em>Written by Shabnam Dastgheib. First appeared on <a href="http://Stuff.co.nz" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/04/10-images-canberra-unique-hotel/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>10 images from Canberra’s most unique hotel</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/travel-tips/2016/05/tripadvisor-reveals-favourite-landmarks-australia/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Tripadvisor reveals Australia’s favourite landmarks</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/06/australias-most-spectacular-hot-air-ballooning-locations/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Australia’s most spectacular hot air ballooning locations</strong></em></span></a></p>

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Forgotten world uncovered under Naples

<p>Geologists have uncovered a forgotten world of incredible stairways and huge chambers underneath the Italian city of Naples, thanks largely to a tip from a World War II survivor.</p> <p>Gianluca Minin and Enzo De Luzio first heard about the intricate tunnels through a letter from a 90-year-old Neapolitan who has sheltered in this subterranean worlds as bombs pelted the city during the war.</p> <p>Gianluca Minin and Enzo De Luzio first heard about the intricate tunnels through a letter from a 90-year-old Neapolitan who has sheltered in the subterranean world as bombs pelted the city during the war.</p> <p><img width="500" height="333" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/17810/naples-in-text-_500x333.jpg" alt="Naples In Text -" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>About a decade ago the pair discovered a network of tunnels and after some 700 metric tonnes of rubble were removed the “hidden world” came into view.</p> <p>Mr Minin and Mr De Luzio are now letting visitors into the new tunnel complex, with a stairway 115 steps long, a 17th century cistern, and graffiti left from World War II.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Twitter / The Times</em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/02/a-look-inside-first-class-cabins/">Inside 8 first class cabins that will amaze you</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/02/most-photographed-locations-in-london/">London’s 8 most photographed locations</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/02/holiday-ideas-for-animal-lovers/">8 holiday ideas every animal lover needs to experience</a></em></strong></span></p>

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The forgotten inventors

<p>Over time, men and women have contributed to the vast development and evolution of mankind in their own special ways. Their names have been mostly buried, but their contributions live on. Here’s a selection of the world’s greatest inventors to be recognised, appreciated and remembered for their efforts.</p> <ol> <li><strong>CORNELIS JACOBSZOON DREBBEL</strong> (1572-1633) = construction of the world’s first navigable submarine in 1620.</li> <li><strong>ADA LOVELACE</strong> (1815-1852) = Lovelace accurately conceived and described an algorithm for the engine to compute Bernoulli numbers, making her the world’s first computer programmer. </li> <li><strong>ÉDOUARD-LÉON SCOTT DE MARTINVILLE</strong> (1817-1879) = Patented a contraption called the phonautograph, which could translate the vibrations of sound into a wavy line scratched by a stiff bristle on a hand-cranked cylinder. His invention was a precursor to Edison’s creation of the phonograph two decades later. </li> <li><strong>ANTONIO MEUCCI</strong> (1808-1889) = Created an electromagnetic telephone to link his basement laboratory to the second floor bedroom of his bedridden wife — almost two decades before Bell’s patent of the telephone. </li> <li><strong>SIR JOSEPH WILSON SWAN</strong> (1828-1914) = The first incandescent light bulb</li> <li><strong>GUSTAVE WHITEHEAD</strong> (1874-1927) = Claimed he had achieved powered flight before 1902, at least a year before the Wrights.</li> <li><strong>EDWIN HOWARD ARMSTRONG</strong> (1890-1954) = Invented frequency modulation transmission — in other words, FM radio.</li> <li><strong>PHILO FARNSWORTH</strong> (1906–1971) = the creator of the first complete television system.</li> <li><strong>DOUGLAS ENGELBART</strong> (1925-2013) = the father of the computer mouse.</li> </ol> <p> </p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <div> <div class="advert"> <div id="adspot-300x250-pos3" class="ad"> <div id="google_ads_iframe_/6411/oversixty/news_2__container__"> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/2016/01/chihuahua-begs-for-freedom-photos/">Photographer captures moment dog begs for freedom</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/2016/01/service-dog-steals-the-show-at-wedding/">Service dog steals the show at wedding</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/2016/01/nsw-gold-opal-daily-cap-could-rise/">Gold Opal daily cap could rise and self-funded retirees could lose cards</a></em></strong></span></p> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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