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Frightening new details emerge on Cleo Smith kidnapping

<p>New details have come to light regarding four-year-old Cleo Smith’s 2021 abduction, one day after the man responsible was <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/sentence-handed-down-for-cleo-smith-abductor" target="_blank" rel="noopener">sentenced to at least 11 years and six months in prison</a>.</p> <p>Cleo was taken from her family’s Western Australia campsite and was missing for a total of 18 days. After an intense police investigation, and a $1 million reward offered by the Western Australia government, detectives found Cleo at a property 75 km south of where she’d been kidnapped by the 37-year-old Terence Kelly.</p> <p>While appearing before Judge Julie Wager in court, Kelly had nothing to say, offering only a nod to acknowledge both his own name and his guilty plea. Cleo’s parents - mother Ellie and stepfather Jake - also did not share any words outside of the courthouse in the wake of Kelly’s sentencing. </p> <p>But what was said inside has revealed frightening new insight into what young Cleo went through during her days of captivity, with Commissioner Blanch - who was Assistant Commissioner at the time - noting that he did not believe the community would ever think Kelly’s time behind bars would be enough. </p> <p>“Judge Wager had to weigh up many things,” he said, “and there were many mitigating circumstances, and I respect the court’s decision.”</p> <p>For the entire 18 days of her nightmare situation, Cleo was kept in Kelly’s Carnarvon property, often locked alone in a bedroom while Kelly was out - the door had been modified, and Cleo was unable to open it from her side. He reportedly attended a number of employment meetings in person, and even visited his relatives.</p> <p>It was also revealed that Cleo would plead with him to be allowed to see her parents, leading Kelly to play the radio at a loud volume to mask her noise. </p> <p>“When the young victim heard her name on the radio, she said ‘they’re saying my name’,” Judge Wagner told the court. </p> <p>As the University of Newcastle’s criminologist Dr Xanthe Mallett told <em>Sunrise</em>, “eighteen days is a really long time in a four-year-old’s life, and to hear her name on the radio and not understand why he wouldn’t return her to her mother must have been incredibly traumatic for her.”</p> <p>Additionally, in a police interview, Kelly admitted that he grew frustrated and was rough with a number of times, but that she was “a bit of a fighter” when he attempted to restrain her. </p> <p>He even added Cleo’s mum as a Facebook friend while he had Cleo, although as he told police, he was never “planning to keep her forever.” </p> <p>Following Kelly’s arrest, social media played a role again, with pictures of his home emerging, showcasing his collection of Bratz dolls, one Judge Wager described as being “consistent with your anxiety.” </p> <p>Those in the courtroom were informed that Kelly had a “significant interest” in dolls, and that it was possible he had imagined his very own family with them. </p> <p>“You’d opened Facebook pages,” Judge Wager stated, “for your fantasy children and communicated with them.”</p> <p>She also shared her understanding that Cleo played into Kelly’s “fantasy of having a little girl he could dress up and play with”, although she still considered his actions to be “at the highest level of seriousness”.</p> <p>“This isn’t a case of luring a child away, that would be serious enough, but the taking of a little four-year-old girl from the zipped-up family tent in the middle of the night when her parents assumed she was safe is even more concerning,” Wager continued. </p> <p>“Her parents woke to find her missing, not knowing if she was alive or dead for the next 18 days. They didn’t know what had happened to her, or whether she’d ever be returned. This shattered her family, and has been damaging and traumatising for the child.”</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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Frightening 911 call about Gabby Petito revealed

<p>Details of the 911 call made to police in Utah regarding a domestic dispute between Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie have emerged. </p> <p>The caller told emergency responder that he had seen a man "slapping" a woman in Moab, Utah on August 12th. </p> <p>“We drove by and the gentleman was slapping the girl,” the caller said.</p> <p>The dispatcher responded, “He was slapping her?”</p> <p>“Yes, and then we stopped. They ran up and down the sidewalk, he proceeded to hit her, hopped in the car and they drove off,” the man replied.</p> <p>The caller informed the authorities that the couple has been driving in a white van with Florida license plates. </p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7844242/gabby.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/d0cb0d6b418c4031a2e47c0fdfaf26c3" /></p> <p><em>Image credit: Moab City Police Department</em></p> <p>The disturbing phone call seems to contradict the report by the police in which Gabby was depicted as the aggressor in the situation. </p> <p>“The male tried to create distance by telling Gabbie [sic] to go take a walk to calm down, she didn’t want to be separated from the male, and began slapping him,” the report said.</p> <p>“He grabbed her face and pushed her back as she pressed upon him and the van, he tried to lock her out and succeeded except for his driver’s door, she opened that and forced her way over him and into the vehicle before it drove off,” the report continued.</p> <p>A police officer wrote, <span>“it was reported the male had been observed to have assaulted the female,” but later determined that “no one reported that the male struck the female.”</span></p> <p>Gabby was officially reported missing by her family on September 11th after her fiancé Brian returned home to Florida 10 days earlier without her. </p> <p>The 911 call comes just one day after Gabby's body was found in the Grand Teton National Part in the US state of Wyoming, where authorities has been looking for the missing 22-year-old. </p> <p>The cause of death is yet to be determined, as police investigations are still on going. </p> <p><em>Image credit: Moab City Police Department</em></p>

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"Just so frightening": Kate Ritchie's heartbreaking confession

<p><span>Kate Ritchie has opened up about her major fears when she left the soap <em>Home and Away</em> after 20 years on the show.</span><br /><br /><span>The star who played Sally Fletcher for more than two decades admitted to Anh Do on an episode of <em>Anh's </em><em>Brush With Fame,</em> that she wasn’t sure she could “survive” if she walked away from the role.</span><br /><br /><span>Ritchie left <em>Home And Away</em> in 2008 at the age of 28, having played Sally since the show’s pilot episode, at just eight-years-old.</span><br /><br /><span>“I didn’t know where she ended and I began or vice versa, and I had to work out whether I was more than that,” said Ritchie.</span><br /><br /><span>She explained that it had “became really obvious” when it was time to finally leave the show.</span><br /><br /><span>“It was just so frightening. What do I actually do when someone doesn’t hand me a schedule on a Friday afternoon and tell me where to be on a Monday?</span><br /><br /><span>“And they were just the logistics that I knew I’d miss. I think it was the other stuff about missing the character and trying to figure out my identity without this other person, that was the stuff I hadn’t really considered too much and that hit me quite hard,” she said.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7840566/kate-ritchie-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/a83838f8f3774c24ace14c050b7c9d54" /></p> <p><em>Kate Ritchie and the late Heath Ledger on the set of Home and Away. Image: Home and Away</em><br /><br /><span>The star is now 42, and found herself choking back tears as she recalled stepping away from the character of Sally Fletcher, who she described as her “best friend for 20 years”.</span><br /><br /><span>“She gave me purpose and a sense of achievement. I feel differently now, after loads of therapy,” she said.</span><br /><br /><span>“I thought the only thing I’d ever done of value in my life was when I was her. I was lost, and I wondered how I was going to survive without her. How were people going to react to me if I wasn’t Sally? Sally was a great person, a great friend and a great daughter … did people only feel something for me because they liked her?”</span><br /><br /><span>Ritchie has gone on to continue her work as an actor, but can also boast that she has since added TV host, children’s author and a radio host under her belt as well.</span><br /><br /><span>“I think the best thing to come out of all of this, is that I’m great without [Sally]. I nearly choked on the words! We’re all great without our security blankets,” she told Do.</span><br /><br /><span>Ritchie shared the clip from tonight’s episode to her Instagram account, admitting that she “worr[ies] so often of what people think. Of me revisiting the same old chapter of my life. The chapter people continue to ask me about and the one that defined me. Publicly and personally. One day I’ll move through that worry … But for now I’ll speak with Anh.”</span></p>

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Coles shopper's frightening discovery on free promo knife

<p>A Coles customer has spoken of her concern after an unsettling incident with a knife she collected during the supermarket's recent promotion.</p> <p>Late last year, Coles gave shoppers the opportunity to collect premium MasterChef knives for free every time they shopped in store or online.</p> <p>Now, Rosie from Victoria has taken to social media to reveal how her steak knife developed a large crack in the blade.</p> <p>Speaking to 7News, a spokesperson for Coles said the supermarket is currently investigating the incident with its supplier.</p> <p>A photo posted by the customer shows that the knife has nearly snapped in two.</p> <p>“So what’s up with the @masterchefau knife doing this?” Rosie asked on Coles’ official Twitter page.</p> <p>“Did no more than slice a steak or two and the odd chop, plus a trip or two in the dishie.</p> <p>“Known fault? Anyone else have the same? Glad it didn’t fly off into someone.”</p> <p>Rosie said she was "genuinely concerned" the issue may happen to another Coles shopper with the knives.</p> <p>A<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.coles.com.au/" target="_blank">Coles</a><span> </span>spokesperson apologised for the incident, and said the supermarket was looking into the issue.</p> <p>“We’re sorry to see this has happened. We have contacted the customer and will be investigating the matter with our supplier,” the spokesperson said.</p> <p>To help ensure our customers get the best use from their MasterChef knives, we have provided safety and care instructions online at<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="http://coles.com.au/howtocareknives" target="_blank">www.coles.com.au/howtocareknives</a>.”</p>

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Frightening photo shows why children should never wear blue while swimming

<p>This terrifying photo shows how important it is for children to wear bright-coloured clothing while swimming as a child in a blue swimsuit is near impossible to spot.</p> <p>At first glance, the photo seems to show an empty swimming pool.</p> <p>But at closer look, a dark patch can be spotted which turns out to be a child wearing pale blue swimming shorts.</p> <p><img style="width: 498.9539748953975px; height: 500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7839750/screen-shot-2021-02-04-at-1-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/8a8d48619b6343f8abe58d77d162d3f1" /></p> <p>The Australian Facebook group CPR Kids, which is run by registered nurses, posted the photo and issued a warning to parents, advising their child should be dressed in bright colours so they are visible in a pool.</p> <p>Nurse Sarah Hunstead also said it was “vital” to “actively supervise” kids and learn CPR.</p> <p><img style="width: 498.9561586638831px; height: 500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7839749/screen-shot-2021-02-04-at-1-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/d36cecb4938f4c98abfb207ea007db56" /></p> <p>Hundreds of people have shared or commented on the image.</p> <p>“That is so scary! I couldn’t see the child at all,” one woman said.</p> <p>“Oh my god, how terrifying,” another said.</p> <p>A third wrote: “This makes me feel sick.”</p> <p>But many parents pointed out how difficult it is to find brightly coloured swimwear when shopping for children - especially boys.</p> <p>“Would be great if you could tell the manufacturers of swimwear!” one wrote.</p> <p>“Once kids get to 7yr it’s all blue/black/white.”</p> <p>Others who came across the photo promised to only dress their children in fluorescent colours.</p> <p>“All future swimwear is going to be hideous and fluoro,” one mum tagged her husband and wrote.</p>

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Dame Julie Walters reveals frightening cancer diagnosis

<p>Veteran British actress Julie Walters has revealed she was diagnosed with bowel cancer in 2018.</p> <p>The<span> </span><em>Harry Potter<span> </span></em>and<span> </span><em>Mamma Mia!<span> </span></em>actress says the news of being diagnosed with stage three of the disease left her and her husband, Grant Roffey, in a state of shock.</p> <p>"I couldn't believe it," she told<span> </span><em>BBC's</em><span> </span>Victoria Derbyshire, describing the moment she told her husband as one she would “never forget”.</p> <p>"I'll never forget his face. And tears came into his eyes," she admitted.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8r1vjUgWRx/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8r1vjUgWRx/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">Julie with her husband, Grant, and her daughter, Maisie, at the Buckingham Palace when she received her OBE (1999). #buckinghampalace #obe #JulieWalters #juliewaltersbrasil #damejuliewalters #britishcomedians #mammamia #educatingrita #michaelcaine #harrypotter #juliewaltersmovies #nationaltreasure #mollyweasley #billyelliot #juliewaltersbrasil #goldenglobewinner #calendargirls #educatingritauk #baftawinner #oscarnomination #london #bafta</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/juliewaltersbrasil/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank"> Julie Walters Brasil</a> (@juliewaltersbrasil) on Feb 17, 2020 at 2:36pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The 69-year-old star says that despite being cleared of the disease around 18 months ago, the diagnosis left her pondering on her life.</p> <p>Decidedly, she has chosen to be more particular with the workloads and projects she takes on.</p> <p>The BAFTA-winning actress told Derbyshire that she visited her doctor after suffering from a number of symptoms, including indigestion, stomach pain and vomiting.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8ydB1RgmZj/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8ydB1RgmZj/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Julie Walters Brasil (@juliewaltersbrasil)</a> on Feb 20, 2020 at 4:15am PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>While filming <em>The Secret Garden</em> Walters found out that a CT scan had uncovered an abnormality in her intestine, which specialists feared was cancer.</p> <p>The star underwent surgery, which removed approximately 30cm of her colon.</p> <p> She also underwent chemotherapy – both experiences she detailed as ones that “completely changed” her perspective towards acting.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8yv0Epgmym/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8yv0Epgmym/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by The Wizarding Washingtons (@the_wizarding_washingtons)</a> on Feb 20, 2020 at 6:59am PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"I feel like the person before the operation is different to this person," said Walters, adding that she enjoyed stepping back from her intensive workload.</p> <p>Walters has been nominated for two Academy Awards — for her supporting roles in <em>Educating Rita</em> and <em>Billy Elliot</em> — and also played Molly Weasley in the <em>Harry Potter</em> movie franchise.</p> <p>"I'm not saying I'll never act again," Walters said.</p> <p>Instead, she says she will likely opt not to star in a film that required her to work 14-hour days, five or six days a week.</p> <p>A recent scan has shown Walters she has fully recovered from her frightening ordeal.</p> <p>As she moves on to new ventures, the actress says the new “merry-go-round” of acting projects lined up for her has given her a sense of “relief”.</p>

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Why is it fun to be frightened?

<p>Audiences flock to horror films. They get a thrill from movies like <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0077651/"><em>Halloween</em></a>, with its seemingly random murder and mayhem in a small suburban town, a reminder that that picket fences and manicured lawns cannot protect us from the unjust, the unknown or the uncertainty that awaits us all in both life and death. The film offers no justice for the victims in the end, no rebalancing of good and evil.</p> <p>Why, then, would anyone want to spend their time and money to watch such macabre scenes filled with depressing reminders of just how unfair and scary our world can be?</p> <p>I’ve spent the past 10 years investigating just this question, finding the typical answer of “Because I like it! It’s fun!” incredibly unsatisfying. I’ve long been convinced there’s more to it than the “natural high” or adrenaline rush many describe – and indeed, the body does kick into “go” mode when you’re startled or scared, amping up not only adrenaline but a multitude of chemicals that ensure your body is fueled and ready to respond. This “fight or flight” response to threat has helped keep humans alive for millennia.</p> <p>That still doesn’t explain why people would want to intentionally scare themselves, though. As a sociologist, I’ve kept asking “But, why?” After two years collecting data in a haunted attraction with my colleague <a href="http://www.wpic.pitt.edu/research/pican/">Greg Siegle</a>, a cognitive neuroscientist at the University of Pittsburgh, we’ve found the gains from thrills and chills can go further than the natural high.</p> <p><strong>Studying fear at a terrifying attraction</strong></p> <p>To capture in real time what makes fear fun, what motivates people to pay to be scared out of their skin and what they experience when engaging with this material, we needed to gather data in the field. In this case, that meant setting up a mobile lab in the basement of an extreme haunted attraction outside Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.</p> <p>This adults-only extreme attraction went beyond the typical startling lights and sounds and animated characters found in a family-friendly haunted house. Over the course of about 35 minutes, visitors experienced a series of intense scenarios where, in addition to unsettling characters and special effects, they were touched by the actors, restrained and exposed to electricity. It was <a href="https://triblive.com/aande/movies/7104986-74/scarehouse-elijah-halloween">not for the faint of heart</a>.</p> <p>For our study, we recruited 262 guests who had already purchased tickets. Before they entered the attraction, each completed a survey about their expectations and how they were feeling. We had them answer questions again about how they were feeling once they had gone through the attraction.</p> <p>We also used mobile EEG technology to compare 100 participants’ brainwave activity as they sat through 15 minutes of various cognitive and emotional tasks before and after the attraction.</p> <p><a href="http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/emo0000470">Guests reported significantly higher mood</a>, and felt less anxious and tired, directly after their trip through the haunted attraction. The more terrifying the better: Feeling happy afterward was related to rating the experience as highly intense and scary. This set of volunteers also reported feeling that they’d challenged their personal fears and learned about themselves.</p> <p>Analysis of the EEG data revealed widespread decreases in brain reactivity from before to after among those whose mood improved. In other words, highly intense and scary activities – at least in a controlled environment like this haunted attraction – may “shut down” the brain to an extent, and that in turn is associated with feeling better. Studies of those <a href="https://doi.org/10.1093/scan/nss054">who practice mindfulness meditation</a> have made a similar observation.</p> <p><strong>Coming out stronger on the other side</strong></p> <p>Together our findings suggest that going through an extreme haunted attraction provides gains similar to choosing to <a href="https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/sites/default/files/lets-get-physical-report.pdf">run a 5K race</a> or tackling a difficult climbing wall. There’s a sense of uncertainty, physical exertion, a challenge to push yourself – and eventually achievement when it’s over and done with.</p> <p>Fun-scary experiences could serve as an in-the-moment recalibration of what registers as stressful and even provide a kind of confidence boost. After watching a scary movie or going through a haunted attraction, maybe everything else seems like no big deal in comparison. You rationally understand that the actors in a haunted house aren’t real, but when you suspend your disbelief and allow yourself to become immersed in the experience, the fear certainly can feel real, as does the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment when you make it through. As I experienced myself after all kinds of <a href="https://www.publicaffairsbooks.com/titles/margee-kerr/scream/9781610397162/">scary adventures in Japan, Colombia and all over the U.S.</a>, confronting a horde of zombies can actually make you feel pretty invincible.</p> <p>Movies like “Halloween” allow people to tackle the big, existential fears we all have, like why bad things happen without reason, through the <a href="https://doi.org/10.1086/519498">protective frame of entertainment</a>. Choosing to do fun, scary activities may also serve as a way to practice being scared, building greater self-knowledge and resilience, similar to <a href="https://eric.ed.gov/?id=EJ959713">rough-and-tumble play</a>. It’s an opportunity to engage with fear on your own terms, in environments where you can push your boundaries, safely. Because you’re not in real danger, and thus not occupied with survival, you can choose to observe your reactions and how your body changes, gaining greater insight to yourself.</p> <p><strong>What it takes to be safely scared</strong></p> <p>While there are countless differences in the nature, content, intensity and overall quality of haunted attractions, horror movies and other forms of scary entertainment, they all share a few critical components that help pave the way for a fun scary time.</p> <p>First and foremost, you have to make the choice to engage – don’t drag your best friend with you unless she is also on board. But do try to gather some friends when you’re ready. When you engage in activities with other people, even just watching a movie, your own emotional experience is intensified. Doing intense, exciting and thrilling things together can make them more fun and help create rewarding social bonds. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1320040111">Emotions can be contagious</a>, so when you see your friend scream and laugh, you may feel compelled to do the same.</p> <p>No matter the potential benefits, horror movies and scary entertainment are not for everyone, and that’s OK. While the fight-or-flight response is universal, there are important differences between individuals – for example, in genetic expressions, environment and personal history – that help explain why some loathe and others love thrills and chills.</p> <p>Regardless of your taste (or distaste) for all things horror or thrill-related, an adventurous and curious mindset can benefit everyone. After all, we’re the descendants of those who were adventurous and curious enough to explore the new and novel, but also quick and smart enough to run or fight when danger appeared. This Halloween, maybe challenge yourself to at least one fun scary experience and prepare to unleash your inner superhero.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. Please DO NOT REMOVE. --><img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important; text-shadow: none !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/101055/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /><!-- End of code. If you don't see any code above, please get new code from the Advanced tab after you click the republish button. 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Passenger describes horror evacuation on stricken cruise: “Very, very frightening”

<p>A passenger on a doomed cruise has described the horror that ensued after the captain announced “Mayday”.</p> <p>Speaking to the <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.9now.com.au/today" target="_blank">Today</a> </em>show, Alexus Shepperd recounted the events of the European ship which sparked an emergency situation after it was stranded in dangerous seas.</p> <p>Mrs Shepperd shared a video of furniture sliding around in the ship, as conditions progressively got worse.</p> <p>With waves exceeding eight metres and wind travelling at 70km/h, five helicopters were called to help evacuate passengers.</p> <p>The rescue operation saw each passenger evacuated one-by-one, though once conditions improved, remaining passengers stayed on board.</p> <p>Mrs Shepperd described the events that occurred beforehand, saying that all passengers were ordered to go to their muster stations, and an emergency call was sounded.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center " data-lang="en-gb"> <p dir="ltr">Still waiting for evacuation. <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/VikingSky?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#VikingSky</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Mayday?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Mayday</a> <a href="https://t.co/6EvcAjf5D2">pic.twitter.com/6EvcAjf5D2</a></p> — Alexus Sheppard 🏳️‍🌈 (@alexus309) <a href="https://twitter.com/alexus309/status/1109537029912711168?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">23 March 2019</a></blockquote> <p>“They announced that not only had we gathered there to start putting on our life jackets, but that the captain had also declared a mayday,” she told <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.9now.com.au/today" target="_blank"><em>Today</em></a>.</p> <p>“And being a sailor myself, any time a captain declares a Mayday, it’s a really big deal because it means the vessel is about to be lost. And so that was very, very frightening. And then a few minutes after that, they announced for all the crew to go and immediately close all the watertight doors.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center" data-lang="en-gb"> <p dir="ltr">Battery dying and people sleeping everywhere. Probably my last tweet of the night. <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/VikingSky?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#VikingSky</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Mayday?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Mayday</a> <a href="https://t.co/ouzegYmHOD">pic.twitter.com/ouzegYmHOD</a></p> — Alexus Sheppard 🏳️‍🌈 (@alexus309) <a href="https://twitter.com/alexus309/status/1109617042817200128?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">24 March 2019</a></blockquote> <p>“And so that’s another sign that they don’t close watertight doors unless there’s water coming aboard somewhere.”</p> <p>Close to 20 people have been transported to hospital, after passengers in the pool and cafes were injured.</p> <p>One of the restaurants had their windows shattered during the ordeal.</p> <p>“The injuries that I saw were mostly injuries from falls that people either lost their footing as the ship was rolling or slipped on wet tiles. There were cuts to the head, cuts to the arms and the legs and I heard some people broke bones,” she said.</p>

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The frightening story of Julie Bishop having her tea spiked by a fellow politician

<p>Australia’s former Foreign Affairs Minister, Julie Bishop, has recalled a frightening experience she encountered two years ago, in a room filled with 20 other foreign affairs ministers from around the world.</p> <p>At the dinner held in Cambodia, Bishop looked forward to her conversation with her Cambodian and Chinese counterparts, who she would be seated between.</p> <p>Despite the political gathering being a dry event, the Foreign Affair’s Minister of Russia, Sergei Lavrov, showed off to his colleagues the flask of Scotch sitting in his pocket.</p> <p>Bishop grew absorbed in a conversation with China’s Wang Yi when she reached for her teacup.</p> <p>“I took a sip of tea and spat it out,” Bishop recalled to <em style="font-weight: inherit;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/bishop-conquered-the-world-but-couldn-t-face-her-own-party-20180831-p5012z.html">The Sydney Morning Herald</a></strong></span>.</em></p> <p>“It was scotch.”</p> <p>While Wang asked if she was OK, Bishop looked up to see Lavrov waving at her from across the room.</p> <p>"He'd bribed a waiter to put scotch into my teacup. Lavrov is evil," she said.</p> <p>It was just one of the ways Bishop was deceived during her time as Foreign Affairs minister, as fellow politicians planned to vote her out on a messaging app during the Liberal leadership spill.</p> <p>The WhatsApp thread, reported by ABC’s Insiders, showed several Liberal PMs deciding to vote Bishop out in the first round of the spill.</p> <p>Attempting to foil a rumoured tactic to secure Peter Dutton as prime minister, the group were encouraged to vote for Scott Morrison, despite their “heart tugging” them to Bishop.</p> <p>“Cormann rumoured to be putting some WA votes behind Julie Bishop in round 1,” Infrastructure Minister Paul Fletcher began, writing to the WhatsApp group.</p> <p>“Be aware that this is a ruse trying to get her ahead of Morrison so he drops out and his votes to Dutton.</p> <p>“Despite our hearts tugging us to Julie we need to vote with our heads for Scott in round one.”</p> <p>“Someone should tell Julie,” one PM responded.</p> <p>“I have… Very respectfully,” Minister for Defence Christopher Pyne said.</p> <p>Bishop received 11 votes in her favour after the first round and then shortly after, resigned from her role. </p>

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Aussie man's frightening discovery under sofa cushion

<p><span>A man on Queensland’s Sunshine Coast made a shock discovery over the weekend when he went to relax on his couch on Saturday morning.</span></p> <p><span>Curling up in front of the TV and hiding under a sofa cushion was a large carpet python.</span></p> <p><span>It is believed the 2.5m snake came into the Cooroy house through an open verandah and then slid its way onto the sofa.</span></p> <p><span>The family then called Noosa Snake Catcher Luke Huntley to safely remove the snake that weighed just under 10kg.</span></p> <p><span>"I started laughing when I saw where it was," Mr Huntley told Yahoo7.</span></p> <p><span>"He went to sit in the spot where he usually goes to watch TV, so he went to move the cushion out of the way, but there was a big snake sitting in his spot," Snake Catcher Luke Huntley said.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FSnakeCatcherNoosa%2Fvideos%2F914605282031896%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560" width="560" height="315" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe><br /></span></p> <p><span>"It was the biggest snake I've caught indoors before."</span></p> <p><span>Luke explained that the snake had stayed in the same position after coming into the house to escape the wet weather on Friday night and stayed indoors as it was a hot Saturday morning.</span></p> <p><span>“So many people leave their door open for the airflow or if they have a dog or cat.</span></p> <p><span>"It's the most common way snakes get in.</span></p> <p><span>"If you don't want snakes inside the house, keep your doors and windows closed," Luke said.</span></p>

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The frightening truth about oral decay

<p>Oral decay could be the next big threat to Australian over-60s, according to a Rockhampton dentist. Greg More, former Queensland president of the Australian Dental Association, has found an increasing number of aged care patients with poor oral hygiene, which, in severe cases, can lead to early death.</p> <p>“Unfortunately, with the passage of time people are just no longer able to maintain their own mouths in the way that they used to,” Dr Greg Moore told the <a href="http://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-01-18/oral-decay-a-time-bomb-for-aging-population-dentist-warns/8191362" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">ABC</span></strong></a>. “Someone else needs to do it, and I've got no problem with nursing home staff — they are very heavily overworked as it is, and cleaning someone else's mouth, with natural teeth, is a very difficult process.”</p> <p>According to Dr Moore, a large part of the problem is simply mobility – particularly aged care facilities in more rural areas. “The saddest cases are when people ring me and say, ‘our mother's dentures are just not fitting the way they used to, can you come and tighten them up for me,’” he explains. “I go in there and the reason their dentures don't fit it because the teeth that used to hold their partial dentures are now little black stumps on their gums. At this stage, they're unwell, they're poor anaesthetic risks, they're immobile and they're heavily medicated – it's just a complete medical nightmare.”</p> <p>Adding to the already frightening situation, the soft, sweet foods regularly given to aged care patients are only contributing to decay. And, in most cases, those who have little control over their diet also have little control over their dental health.</p> <p>To combat this, Dr Moore says more aged care homes need to engage regular dental services, though admits this could send the already-expensive care fees further up. “It's the cost of the person's health and wellbeing. How can you put a cost on that?”</p> <p>Have you found this to be the case? Share your thoughts in the comments below.</p> <p><em>Source: <a href="http://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-01-18/oral-decay-a-time-bomb-for-aging-population-dentist-warns/8191362" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">ABC</span></strong></a></em></p>

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