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Landlord slammed for listing $300-a-week "coffin"

<p>A Sydney landlord has sparked outrage online after advertising a “coffin” for rent at an astonishing price.</p> <p>A Reddit user shared the Facebook Marketplace advertisement for the “pantry room”, located in an apartment at the heart of Sydney’s CBD.</p> <p>The room contains just one single mattress that fills the entire width of the room, with no window and just a small patch of space between the bed and the room’s door.</p> <p>The questionable listing is advertised for $300 a week.</p> <p>Initially advertised as a “Penthouse small room” for $300 a month - or $75 a week - the Reddit user who found the ad confirmed this was false.</p> <p>“I have clarified with the person who posted this ad, it is $300/week to sleep in a CBD apartment pantry room,” they said.</p> <p>Fellow Reddit users were dumbstruck by the listing, saying that it goes to show how “out of hand” Australia’s rental crisis has become.</p> <p>“This is how far Sydney has fallen. F*** this shit,” one wrote.</p> <p>Another added, “At this point in the rental crisis I shouldn’t be surprised, but wow ... what a scam!”</p> <p>“Worst part is I guarantee people would consider it.” a third wrote.</p> <p>“Lol this is what I pay for a one bedroom apartment near the beach in Newcastle.” Another response read.</p> <p>Another noted, “It’s a cupboard - not a bedroom.”</p> <p>Others questioned if it was legal to rent the room as it has no window.</p> <p>According to the National Construction Code, in order for a bedroom to be “habitable” it has to have access to daylight and natural ventilation. Experts said this usually calls for a window.</p> <p>“That’s illegal anyways, every habitable room must have a window. You could report it,” wrote one Reddit user.</p> <p>“But my lord ... is that legal?” another questioned.</p> <p>Many users commented that they “weren’t surprised” given the lows that some landlords are going to in the current climate.</p> <p>“Amazed they didn’t put a bunk bed in there,” one wrote.</p> <p>Another added, “Yeah, I think the eternity I spend in a coffin will be time enough to enjoy these sorts of conditions.”</p> <p>While a third joked, “Would the person that rents this out please sub-let the top 30cm of this penthouse to me? I’d sleep in a submarine hammock bed up there. Say, $200 a week?”</p> <p><em>Image credit: Reddit</em></p>

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Infamous Coffin Confessor offers guests the chance to sleep like the dead

<p>Some of the best ideas in life come from a quiet night at home with our thoughts, as well as some of the most unique. </p> <p>Or, as the case may be with the Coffin Confessor, some worth ‘dying’ for. </p> <p>Bill Edgar, who rose to the public eye when he began offering his services as a ‘coffin confessor’ sharing the secrets of the terminally ill at their funerals, was lounging around and enjoying a few ports when inspiration struck him, and his new venture was set into motion. </p> <p>As Bill told <em>Sunrise</em>, “I thought ‘I’ve got a great property for camping’. A lot of people have been intrigued about the Coffin Confessor, [and] I thought, ‘well, why not coffin camping.’</p> <p>“Lo and behold, here we are.”</p> <p>And so, Bill’s unique take on an Airbnb stay - and trying before you buy - took off, with the enthusiastic entrepreneur offering guests the opportunity to embrace their inner vampire and catch some sleep inside of a coffin. A real coffin, no less.</p> <p>Situated in the Gold Coast hinterland’s Tamborine Mountains, Bill’s experience is a far cry from your average bloodsuckers. No tombstones linger around every corner, guests won’t be walking face first into any cobwebs every second step, and the coffins are - as Bill explained - “nice and warm”.</p> <p>The most common question Bill - who already has six bookings for his experience - gets is over whether or not they are actually real coffins. The simple answer? Absolutely. </p> <p>He was quick to assure potential customers that they can’t become trapped in there, and they shouldn’t be dreadfully uncomfortable, as “you can’t suffocate and you can’t lock yourselves in because I’ve taken the locks out. They’ve all been modified for protection, obviously.”</p> <p>As well as the coffin cabin - which looks to be a modified shipping container - comes ‘the main room’, which Bill described as somewhere guests could “enjoy”. He went on to explain that they could make themselves a coffee there, or breakfast, all while enjoying the “quirky” experience and stunning views the location has to offer. </p> <p>“It’s a lot of fun, it’s different,” Bill declared. “And, you know what, at the end of the day thousands of people - even millions of people - will swag. They lay in swags … just a glorified body bag.”</p> <p>And to wrap it all up, he noted that “we’re all going to die. I suppose it’s now getting to the point where people can now talk about it without it getting creepy, or anything like that.</p> <p>“I think people will always be intrigued about death and the afterlife.</p> <p>“Try before you die.”</p> <p><em>Images: Sunrise / Seven</em></p>

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Groom slammed for arriving to his wedding in a coffin

<p>A groom has been blasted online for his "disrespectful" decision to be carried into his wedding ceremony in a coffin, which was hoisted up to the altar by his future wife's bridesmaids. </p> <p>The unnamed groom's bizarre entrance was captured on video by a wedding guest, as the man was carted up the aisle at his outdoor ceremony in a black casket, with two bridesmaids leading the eerie procession, while being helped by several groomsmen. </p> <p>The video, which was shared to TikTok, garnered a whopping 8.2 million views and although it didn't reveal the reactions of the bride, it certainly struck an unhappy chord with viewers, who were quick to blast the newlywed man's actions.</p> <div class="embed" style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline: none !important;"><iframe class="embedly-embed" style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border-width: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; width: 617px; max-width: 100%; outline: none !important;" title="tiktok embed" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2Fv2%2F7163074385551641898&amp;display_name=tiktok&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40tobz88%2Fvideo%2F7163074385551641898&amp;image=https%3A%2F%2Fp19-sign.tiktokcdn-us.com%2Fobj%2Ftos-useast5-p-0068-tx%2F6a5088edd5ab487b8c7f275ebee96326%3Fx-expires%3D1668553200%26x-signature%3DqdJJryU9a0IV5csE4DedsXQauf4%253D&amp;key=59e3ae3acaa649a5a98672932445e203&amp;type=text%2Fhtml&amp;schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div> <p>The wedding guest shared the video along with the song Rest In Peace by Dorothy, while adding the caption, "Tell me you're dramatic without telling me you're dramatic.</p> <p>"They also wrote, "Is this a funeral? No, this is how my friend decided to walk down the aisle."</p> <p>Online critics were quick to offer up their own horrified reactions to the groom's idea of a joke, with several commenters insisting that they would have cancelled the wedding immediately if their partner had made a similar kind of entrance.  </p> <p>One user said, "We would be divorced before we said I do."</p> <p>Another user commented, "I would literally cancel the wedding", while another simply said, "The disrespect, the audacity."</p> <p><em>Image credits: TikTok </em></p>

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Coffin? Casket? Cremation? How to make your death more environmentally friendly

<p>We can all agree humans need to reduce their impact on the environment. And while most of us think of this in terms of daily activities – such as eating less meat, or being water-wise – this responsibility actually extends beyond life and into death.</p> <p>The global population is closing on <a href="https://www.un.org/en/un-chronicle/global-population-will-soon-reach-8-billion-then-what" target="_blank" rel="noopener">eight billion</a>, and the amount of land available for human burial is <a href="https://www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/deal-with-the-dead/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">running out</a>, especially in small and densely populated countries.</p> <p>To minimise environmental impact, human bodies should return to nature as quickly as possible. But the rate of decay in some of the most common traditional disposal methods is very slow. It can take <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/how-long-it-takes-human-body-decompose-grave-coffin-2019-8" target="_blank" rel="noopener">several decades</a> for a body to decompose.</p> <p>In a one-of-its-kind study, our team analysed <a href="https://irispublishers.com/gjfsm/fulltext/a-taphonomic-examination-of-inhumed-and-entombed-remains-in-parma-cemeteries-italy.ID.000518.php" target="_blank" rel="noopener">408 human bodies</a> exhumed from grave pits and stone tombs in the north of Italy to find out what conditions help speed up decay.</p> <h2>The environmental cost of traditional burials</h2> <p>Funeral rituals should respect the dead, bring closure to families and promote the reaching of the afterlife in accordance with people’s beliefs. This looks different for different people. Although the Catholic church has allowed cremation <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2016/10/26/world/europe/vatican-bans-scattering-of-human-ashes.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">since 1963</a>, it still prefers burials. Muslims are always supposed to be buried, while most Hindus are cremated.</p> <p>In Australia, however, the latest census revealed almost 40% of the population identifies as “<a href="https://theconversation.com/no-religion-is-australias-second-largest-religious-group-and-its-having-a-profound-effect-on-our-laws-185697" target="_blank" rel="noopener">not religious</a>”. This opens up more avenues for how people’s bodies may be handled after death.</p> <p>Most traditional burial practices in industrialised countries have several long-lasting harmful <a href="https://apps.who.int/iris/bitstream/handle/10665/108132/EUR_ICP_EHNA_01_04_01%28A%29.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">effects</a> on the environment. Wood and metal fragments in coffins and caskets remain in the ground, leaching harmful chemicals through paint, preservatives and alloys. Chemicals used for embalming also remain in the ground and can <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3315260/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">contaminate</a> soil and waterways.</p> <p>Cremation also has a large <a href="https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/is-cremation-environmentally-friendly-heres-the-science" target="_blank" rel="noopener">carbon footprint</a>. It requires lots of trees for fuel and produces millions of tons of carbon dioxide each year, as well as toxic volatile compounds.</p> <p>There are several alternatives to traditional burials. These include “water cremation” or “resomation” (where the body is rapidly dissolved), human <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-09-26/body-composting-a-green-alternative-to-burial-cremation/100486964" target="_blank" rel="noopener">composting</a>, mummification, cryonics (freezing and storage), <a href="https://eirene.ca/blog/space-burial-ashes-in-orbit" target="_blank" rel="noopener">space burials</a>, and even turning the body into <a href="https://edition.cnn.com/2017/05/03/world/eco-solutions-capsula-mundi/index.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">trees</a> or the ashes into <a href="https://www.nationalgeographic.com/magazine/article/ashes-to-diamonds-reefs-rockets-how-we-will-memorialize-dead" target="_blank" rel="noopener">diamonds</a> or <a href="https://www.andvinyly.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">record vinyls</a>.</p> <p>However, many of these alternatives are either illegal, unavailable, costly or not aligned with people’s beliefs. The vast majority choose coffin burials, and all countries accept this method. So the question of sustainable burials comes down to choosing between the many types of <a href="https://australian.museum/about/history/exhibitions/death-the-last-taboo/burial-coffins-and-caskets/?gclid=CjwKCAjwx7GYBhB7EiwA0d8oe-mOKjLns2Gj5mpj-mu_kskmPPCKjhOqUrUAEjC05D4pnSXyBP3xrhoCE9oQAvD_BwE" target="_blank" rel="noopener">coffins available</a>.</p> <h2>What leads to faster decomposition?</h2> <p>Coffins range from traditional wooden caskets, to cardboard coffins, to natural coffins made from willow, banana leaf or bamboo, which decompose faster.</p> <p>The most environmentally sustainable choice is one that allows the body to decompose and reduce to a skeleton (or “skeletonise”) quickly – possibly in just a few years.</p> <p>Our research has presented three key findings on conditions that promote the skeletonisation of human bodies.</p> <p>First, it has confirmed that bodies disposed in traditionally sealed tombs (where a coffin is placed inside a stone space) can take more than 40 years to skeletonise.</p> <p>In these sealed tombs, bacteria rapidly consume the oxygen in the stone space where the coffin is placed. This creates a micro-environment that promotes an almost indefinite preservation of the body.</p> <p>We also found burial grounds with a high percentage of sand and gravel in the soil promote the decomposition and skeletonisation of bodies in less than ten years – even if they are in a coffin.</p> <p>That’s because this soil composition allows more circulation of air and microfauna, and ample water drainage – all of which are helpful for degrading organic matter.</p> <p>Finally, our research confirmed previous suspicions about the slow decomposition of entombed bodies. We discovered placing bodies inside stone tombs, or covering them with a stone slab on the ground, helps with the formation of corpse wax (or “<a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33596512/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">adipocere</a>”).</p> <p>This substance is the final result of several chemical reactions through which the body’s adipose (fat) tissues turn to a “soapy” substance that’s very resistant to further degradation. Having corpse wax slows down (if not completely arrests) the decomposition process.</p> <h2>A new, greener option</h2> <p>In looking for innovative burial solutions, we had the opportunity to experiment with a new type of body disposal in a tomb called an “<a href="https://www.mdpi.com/2673-6756/2/3/37" target="_blank" rel="noopener">aerated tomb</a>”.</p> <p>Over the past 20 years aerated tombs have been developed in some European countries including France, Spain and Italy (where they <a href="https://www.tecnofar-solutions.com/prodotti/sistema-aerato-loculi" target="_blank" rel="noopener">have</a> <a href="https://www.argema.net/loculi-aerati/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">been</a> <a href="https://www.ala-strutture-cimiteriali.com/loculi-aerati" target="_blank" rel="noopener">commercialised</a>). They allow plenty of ventilation, which in turn enables a more hygienic and faster decomposition of bodies compared to traditional tombs.</p> <p>They have a few notable features:</p> <ul> <li> <p>an activated carbon filter purifies gases</p> </li> <li> <p>fluids are absorbed by two distinct biodegrading biological powders, one placed at the bottom of the coffin and the other in a collecting tray beneath it</p> </li> <li> <p>once the body has decomposed, the skeletal remains can be moved to an ossuary (a site where skeletal remains are stored), while the tomb can be dismantled and most of its components potentially recycled.</p> </li> </ul> <p>Aerated tombs are also cheaper than ordinary tombs and can be built from existing tombs. They would be simple to use in Australia and would comply with public health and hygiene standards.</p> <p>Most of us don’t spend much time thinking about what will happen to our bodies after we die. Perhaps we should. In the end this may be one of our most important last decisions – the implications of which extend to our precious planet.</p> <p><strong>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/coffin-casket-cremation-how-to-make-your-death-more-environmentally-friendly-188456" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>.</strong></p> <p><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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"Last great journey": Queen’s coffin arrives in Edinburgh

<p dir="ltr">Queen Elizabeth II's coffin arrived in Edinburgh on Sunday following a six-hour journey from her summer home in the Scottish Highlands.</p> <p dir="ltr">Her solemn arrival was greeted by thousands of people at the city's Royal Mile; Her Majesty's body will remain there for two days to allow people to pay their final respects.</p> <p dir="ltr">The queen's daughter Anne and her sons, Princes Andrew and Edward, curtsied and bowed as the coffin was carried inside by soldiers from the Royal Regiment of Scotland.</p> <p dir="ltr">This is just ahead of the Queen’s state funeral at Westminster Abbey in London on September 19.</p> <p dir="ltr">Following her <a href="https://oversixty.com.au/news/news/queen-elizabeth-ii-dead-at-96" target="_blank" rel="noopener">death</a>, the Queen's son, King Charles III, spoke of her long 70-year reign.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Her dedication and devotion as Sovereign never wavered, through times of change and progress, through times of joy and celebration, and through times of sadness and loss,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">He also spoke about looking forward to following in his mother’s footsteps.</p> <p dir="ltr">"It will no longer be possible for me to give so much of my time and energies to the charities and issues for which I care so deeply,” King Charles III continued.</p> <p dir="ltr">"But I know this important work will go on in the trusted hands of others.</p> <p dir="ltr">"And to my darling Mama, as you begin your last great journey to join my dear late Papa, I want simply to say this: Thank you.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Thank you for your love and devotion to our family and to the family of nations you have served so diligently all these years.</p> <p dir="ltr">"May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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Tragic scenes as clifftop cemetery collapses into the sea

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>A landslide has caused hundreds of coffins to end up in the ocean on the Italian coast near Genoa.</p> <p>The Camogli cemetery was built more than 100 years ago and is situated along an area of rocky seaside cliffs.</p> <p>Francesco Olivari, the mayor of Camogli, called the collapse an “unimaginable catastrophe.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Camogli?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Camogli</a> (GE), frana cimitero: prosegue da parte di specialisti <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/sommozzatori?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#sommozzatori</a> e nautici dei <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/vigilidelfuoco?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#vigilidelfuoco</a> la ricerca e il recupero delle centinaia di bare finite in mare lunedì pomeriggio. Droni in volo per monitorare le operazioni delle squadre e l’area del crollo <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/24febbraio?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#24febbraio</a> <a href="https://t.co/cRFxHw0KJe">pic.twitter.com/cRFxHw0KJe</a></p> — Vigili del Fuoco (@emergenzavvf) <a href="https://twitter.com/emergenzavvf/status/1364576829546364928?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 24, 2021</a></blockquote> <p>Maintenance was being performed on Saturday alongside the areas of the coastline when it was stopped after workers noticed cracks in the rocks.</p> <p>“We were doing work on a portion of the rocky coast - it was close to the area that fell today,” Olivari told CNN on Monday.</p> <p>“Some signs of fissures were seen. We decided to close the cemetery.”</p> <p>On Tuesday, officials said they will continue work on recovering the coffins and corpses.</p> <p>It is estimated 200 coffins had fallen, but only 10 have been recovered.</p> <p>Recovering the rest of the coffins will "depend on the sea in the coming days", according to Giacomo Giampedrone, regional assessor of civil protection.</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Nail in the coffin: Today show reaches a record low

<p><em>Today </em>continues its slump as the breakfast show’s ratings plunged to its lowest in more than a decade.</p> <p>After hitting a 2019 low of 163,000 metro viewers on Wednesday, the program slipped further to 155,000 viewers on Friday while rival show <em>Sunrise </em>pulled in 298,000 viewers.</p> <p>The <em>Today </em>show’s ratings have shown a downward trend since it dipped below the 200,000-viewer mark in <a href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/morning-shows/easier-to-turn-around-the-qeii-than-today-channel-9-break-shows-ratings-sink/news-story/6ee72dcf7ccafb7c33105b06c51ee461">mid-January</a>. In February, <em>Today </em>recorded its lowest figures in a decade with just <a href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/morning-shows/today-show-drops-to-embarrassing-new-low/news-story/3c9b51115e9b384aa909b9db03328b36">168,000 people</a> tuning in to the show across five capital cities on one day.</p> <p>According to Channel 9, <em>Today</em>’s lowest results were in <a href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/morning-shows/easier-to-turn-around-the-qeii-than-today-channel-9-break-shows-ratings-sink/news-story/6ee72dcf7ccafb7c33105b06c51ee461">December 2005</a> when the program earned just 116,000 viewers.</p> <p>Rumours have emerged that Nine will address the ailing ratings by creating a new line-up in 2020 to include names such as <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/today-show-surprise-star-asked-to-fill-in-on-struggling-breakfast-show">Andy Lee</a> and Carrie Bickmore. Former host Karl Stefanovic has also been tipped to <a href="https://au.lifestyle.yahoo.com/more-trouble-brews-for-today-show-cast-231859635.html">return to <em>Today</em></a>.</p>

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Rockhampton family says funeral home swapped $1,700 coffin for cheap box

<p>When Rockhampton woman Janice Cecilia Valigura passed away at the age of 74 on New Year’s Eve, her family understandably wanted to give her a beautiful, respectful send-off. As such, they chose a “gorgeous” oak coffin worth $1,700 from Harts Family Funerals.</p> <p>However, when they arrived at the crematorium, they found their expensive, ornate casket purchased from Harts Family Funerals had been switched with a cheap pine box after the requiem mass had ended, and that all the personal letters written by Janice’s children and placed on her heart had been tossed inside.</p> <p>“[The funeral director] knew the family would have gone to a huge effort to give Janice a respectful send-off and what she was put in was absolutely degrading to my aunty,” Janice’s niece Kerry Rothery told the <em><a href="https://www.themorningbulletin.com.au/news/police-investigate-shocking-rocky-coffin-switch-cl/3307524/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Rockhampton Morning Bulletin</span></strong></a></em>.</p> <p>Shockingly, Kerry was told by the director, Tony Hart, that the practice was “commonplace”. On Tuesday, he told the <a href="http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/queensland/funeral-director-on-coffin-switch-body-put-in-cheap-pine-coffin-to-save-real-one-from-cracking/news-story/cddc56c283bb91de4ea60aeccb9a93f1" target="_blank"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Courier Mail</span></em></strong></a> he had switched the coffins to prevent the expensive one cracking in the cold, since a delay at the crematorium meant Janice’s casket had to be returned to the freezer.</p> <p>“The coffin she was cremated in was the same one that the family bought,” Hart claimed, denying he had ever cremated someone in a different coffin to the one purchased, nor had he ever re-used a coffin.</p> <p>There are now calls for a huge overhaul to the industry which Timothy Button, founder of Just Cremate Me, said has “no regulation at all”. </p> <p>“I think they’re just money-hungry,” he told <a href="http://www.news.com.au/finance/business/other-industries/funeral-homes-alleged-1700-coffin-switch-a-new-low/news-story/7b45707dfcf067a3ed130731522b4f69" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">news.com.au</span></strong></a>.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Kerry Rothery.</em></p>

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Earl Spencer says he was lied to over princes following coffin

<p>Earl Spencer, the brother of Diana, Princess of Wales, claims he was lied to about the William and Harry wanting to walk behind their mother’s coffin.</p> <p>Spencer said he raised his objections with royal officials but was told her sons wanted to do it. He  later realised this was not the case.</p> <p>As the 20th anniversary of Diana’s tragic death nears, Spencer told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme it was a “very bizarre and cruel thing” for William and Harry to be asked to walk behind her body.</p> <p>He said his sister would not have wanted it, but royal officials told him otherwise.</p> <p>“Eventually I was lied to and told they wanted to do it, which of course they didn’t but I didn’t realise that.”</p> <p>He also described walking behind Diana’s coffin as the “most horrifying half hour of my life”, admitting he still has nightmares about the “harrowing” event 20 years on.</p> <p>But he said the experience must have been a “million times worse” for Diana’s sons.</p> <p>He said: “The feeling, the sort of absolute crashing tidal wave of grief coming at you as you went down this sort of tunnel of deep emotion, it was really harrowing and I still have nightmares about it now.</p> <p>“So there was the inner turmoil of thinking, ‘My God this is ghastly’, but then the point of thinking these two boys are doing this and it must be a million times worse for them.</p> <p>“It was truly horrifying, actually.</p> <p>“We would walk a hundred yards and hear people sobbing and then walk round a corner and somebody wailing and shouting out messages of love to Diana or William and Harry, and it was a very, very tricky time.”</p> <p><span>Prince Harry has recently opened up about the emotional trauma he experienced after the death of his mother, Princess Diana, and the <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2017/06/prince-harry-mental-health-struggles-after-diana-death/">agony of being forced to walk behind her coffin at the funeral.</a></span></strong></span></p> <p><span>“My mother had just died, and I had to walk a long way behind her coffin, surrounded by thousands of people watching me while millions more did on television,” he recalled to <em><span>Newsweek</span></em> magazine. “I don't think any child should be asked to do that, under any circumstances. I don't think it would happen today.”</span></p>

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The club where seniors turn coffins into works of art

<p>Seniors in New Zealand are enthusiastically embracing a new pastime to help combat loneliness (which admittedly is a little bit out of left field) – coffin construction.</p> <p>Scores of retirees around New Zealand have formed clubs to get together and build their own coffins, as a means of meeting new people and saving on funeral costs.</p> <p>The original coffin club was reportedly founded in 2010 in Rotorua by former palliative care Nurse Katie Williams, and since then the model has spread around the country.</p> <p>Williams told <a href="https://www.theguardian.com" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>The Guardian</strong></span></a>, “Because of my work and my age I had become a perpetual mourner. I had seen lots of people dying and their funerals were nothing to do with the vibrancy and life of those people. You would not know what they were really like. That they had lived and laughed and loved.</p> <p>“I had a deep-seated feeling that people’s journey’s deserved a more personal farewell. There is a lot of loneliness among the elderly, but at the coffin club people feel useful, and it is very social. We have morning tea and lunch, and music blaring, and cuddles.</p> <p>“Our motto is; it’s a box until there is someone in it. And while it’s just a box, it brings us together.”</p> <p>What an interesting initiative. Could you ever see yourself being interested in joining something like this? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section. </p> <p><em>Image credit: Guardian / Facebook </em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="/health/caring/2016/06/why-is-talking-about-death-still-so-taboo/"><strong>Why is talking about death still so taboo?</strong></a></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="/health/mind/2016/04/how-i-crawled-back-from-a-grief-stricken-black-hole/"><strong>How I crawled back from a grief-stricken black hole</strong></a></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="/news/news/2015/08/dying-man-holds-own-wake/"><strong>Dying man holds his own wake (before he dies)</strong></a></em></span></p>

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