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The most attractive careers according to Aussies

<p dir="ltr">In what could be a saviour to your lack of dating, did you know your profession helps you with finding someone? </p> <p dir="ltr">According to research from eharmony, knowing what a potential partner does for work influences attraction.</p> <p dir="ltr">At the top of the list of the most attractive jobs is healthcare workers for both men and women, showing COVID-19 has made us feverish for partners who can take care of us. </p> <p dir="ltr">For Australian women, doctors, tradies and firefighters are the top three most attractive professions. </p> <p dir="ltr">For Aussie men, nurses, models and flight attendants are the top three most attractive professions. </p> <p dir="ltr">So when it comes to a first date, unless spoken to prior, at least 59 per cent of Aussies ask the other party what they do for a living on a first date.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/09/most-attractive.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr">eharmony psychologist Sharon Draper said a person’s profession usually helps with associating their traits and what they would be like as a person.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We commonly associate traits with certain careers; nurses are caring, lawyers are strong-willed and so forth,” she said. </p> <p dir="ltr">“We then use these traits to make judgements about a potential partner and our compatibility with them.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Not only does someone’s job tell you about their personality, but it also tells us about the compatibility of your lives together. </p> <p dir="ltr">“We know some jobs keep people away from each other longer than others or require more hours working late at home, and this may or may not fit with our lifestyle and what we’re looking for in a relationship.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Ultimately, it’s just another way to get to know a potential partner and learn more about them. </p> <p dir="ltr">“One aspect of a person’s life doesn’t define them, but acts as a puzzle piece that may or may not fit our picture of our future lives.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Supplied/Shutterstock</em></p>

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Gentlemen DO prefer blondes

<p dir="ltr">Almost half of Aussies (42%) are in relationships with someone who doesn’t reflect their type, according to new research by dating app eharmony. </p> <p dir="ltr">This challenges the definition of having a “type”, which often is misleading and can restrict romantic potential. </p> <p dir="ltr">eharmony psychologist Sharon Draper said it’s not surprising that apps have affected the dating world.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s not that surprising that so many people have a preconceived idea about their type, but it is unfortunate that this can act as a barrier to finding love,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The fact that almost one in three of those in relationships are with partners who do not typically reflect their preferences, proves that our lustful leanings can be unreliable.</p> <p dir="ltr">“In the world of online dating, it’s easy to make snap judgements based on appearance. But numerous scientifically based studies demonstrate that long after sexual chemistry has peaked, its high compatibility that determines romantic success or failure.”</p> <p dir="ltr">More than half of those polled (56%) admit they avoid dating matches that don’t fit all their chosen criteria, meaning that up to 14 million individuals may be missing out on finding real love.</p> <p dir="ltr">More than half of online love-seekers (53%) admit they have a type when it comes to dating (51% men versus 54% women), including an inclination for certain hair colour, height and body size.</p> <p dir="ltr">Women prefer the darker hair look (34%), but it seems gentlemen do prefer blondes, with fair locks taking out the top spot (37%) for their dating type. </p> <p dir="ltr">Redheads appeal to just over one in 10 (13%) Aussies when it comes to romantic choices.</p> <p dir="ltr">Women are generally (40%) smitten for the stereotypical ‘tall dark and handsome’ type – preferring to date men of taller stature who have dark hair.</p> <p dir="ltr">In terms of body size, almost half of men (48%) would prefer to date someone of slim build, whereas only a quarter of women (27%) require their blokes to be trim.</p> <p dir="ltr">Compared to Brits, Aussies are more likely to go for the athletic type, with a third (34%) of Aussies liking tall or large, compared to only 18% of our northern hemisphere cousins.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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Your pet plays a big part in your relationship

<p dir="ltr">Have you ever stopped dating someone simply because they did not get along with your pet? </p> <p dir="ltr">According to eharmony, it’s a lot more common than you thought to ditch someone because they don’t like your furry friend. </p> <p dir="ltr">Aussies are more attracted to pet owners, as those who have their pets in their dating profile are more likely to get more interest from potential suitors. </p> <p dir="ltr">eharmony psychologist Sharon Draper said the way someone is with a pet is a strong indicator of how they would be in the relationship. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Our pets are often like our family – they see us through important parts of our lives, they’re companions through the ups and the downs, and we love them,” she told OverSixty. </p> <p dir="ltr">“So much like family, when you’re looking for a potential partner, compatibility with your pet is key for the long-term success of the relationship. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Ultimately, we would never want to end up in a ‘them or me’ situation, so it’s important to get this established early on.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Sharon said it could also help individuals see whether or not someone would make a great parent. </p> <p dir="ltr">“The research and personal anecdotes I hear show that we make assumptions about how a person would be in a relationship based on how they treat their pets,” she went on.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Whether this can be applied to how they would be as a parent is hard to say because a relationship between a parent and child is very different from an owner and a pet (despite how similar it feels sometimes). </p> <p dir="ltr">“What we do know is that pets are a fantastic indicator of values, and these values may be what a parent would instill in their child, so the two can still be related.” </p> <p dir="ltr">But what about those who are afraid of animals or are not interested in looking after one? </p> <p dir="ltr">Sharon explained that it is generally not an issue as long as it is spoken about at the beginning of what could be a potential relationship. </p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s totally okay to have different interests than your partner and animals can be one of them,” she said. </p> <p dir="ltr">“However, it’s incredibly important to be clear about your feelings towards animals and potential pets early on in a relationship so you can manage the expectations of your partner and not set yourself up for unexpected conflict later if your partner suggests getting a furry friend.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Now when it comes to what pets are ranked the highest it is very obviously dogs, followed by cats, birds, rabbits and lizards. </p> <p dir="ltr">And the pets that are absolute deal breakers with the highest ranking being crocodiles, followed by snakes, rats, possums and lizards.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Supplied/Shutterstock</em></p>

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