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Grandparents to the rescue in the face of soaring rents

<p>As the cost of living in Australia continues to rise, taking rental and property prices up with it, younger generations are facing a whole new host of challenges when it comes to putting a roof over their heads. </p> <p>But for one woman from New South Wales’ Blue Mountains region, the answer lay closer than she ever could have anticipated. </p> <p>As 24-year-old Isis Pattison told ABC’s <em>Hack</em>, she had been looking for an affordable rental in her local area for months when she lost track of how many applications she’d submitted, and the entire ordeal had become “ridiculous” - until she’d taken her grandmother, Debbie, along with her. </p> <p>Debbie explained that her granddaughter had been looking at a yurt that “was round and connected by a little pathway. And they wanted $370 a week for it”, and that she had been shocked by the cost. </p> <p>Her solution? Offering Isis a place in her own home, so that she could “save that $370”.</p> <p>And Isis’ financial boost wasn’t the only benefit to come of the whole arrangement, with Debbie noting that she’d “been on my own now for nearly eight years. It’s been very lonely and expensive on my own.” </p> <p>She’d been hit hard by the cost of living crisis too, she revealed, admitting that she had been struggling to make ends meet between bills and essential home items, including everything from food to electricity and heating. At the worst of it all, the grandmother had even feared she may have to sell the home she’d been making for herself since 1981.</p> <p>But things had picked up for Debbie with the arrival of her new roommate, as while Isis wasn’t paying rent at her grandmother’s, she was helping out with the bills, paying half. </p> <p>“It's a big help,” Debbie said. “I'm grateful and happy that she's here. I think my standard of living is a little bit better. I've got the heating on now.”</p> <p>For Isis, who intended to return to university and undertake a nursing degree, her grandmother’s generosity meant more than just extra dollars in her savings account, too.  </p> <p>“I think it really works for us as well, because we’ve always just had a good connection,” she shared. “We understand each other, which makes it a lot easier.”</p> <p>And they aren’t the only ones who’ve turned to multigenerational living to combat the crisis, with the University of New South Wales’ Edgar Liu revealing that “one in every five people” have returned home since the COVID pandemic swept the country. </p> <p>Unsurprisingly, the most common reasons behind the moves were the cost of living and related finance woes. As Liu explained, “that encompasses a whole range of things from sharing bills, or finding better value and sharing costs."</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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Top tips for harmonious multigenerational living

<p>It’s not uncommon nowadays to find a few generations sharing one home. While grandparents, parents and grandkids all living together under the same roof is not a new phenomenon, the trend is on the rise and will likely continue to grow. And while it’s often born out of negative circumstances, there are so many benefits of multigenerational living. But with any crowded living space, there are challenges so here are a few tips to keep the peace and make sure everyone gets along.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Give everyone privacy</strong></p><p>Everyone should have a place in the house to call their home; it doesn’t necessarily have to be a room, but a space to call their own and where they know they won’t be disturbed. Children and adults alike feel more comfortable and secure when they have patches of their own space. And no matter how much you love spending time with family, it’s important everyone has downtime for themselves in the house.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Be realistic with expectations</strong></p><p>It’s natural to want everything to work perfectly when generations meld together but everyone needs to be realistic with expectations. Not everyone’s stuff is going to fit in the house, grandkids aren’t going to want to spend all their time with grandparents, and grandparents aren’t going to be able to help with everything. A compromise from everybody is needed for harmonious living.</p><p><strong>Let everyone live their own lives</strong></p><p>Everyone needs a sense of independence whether young or old. For grandkids, they don’t want another set of parents in grandparents. Similarly, grandparents also don’t need or want to be parented by their children (or vice versa). Let family members have their lives outside of the family.</p><p><strong>Reap the benefits and make memories</strong></p><p>Often mutigenerational living situations come out of negative circumstances but they offer you positive opportunities you might not have. For grandkids, they have their grandparents on hand to share with them their family history and learn about the past. For grandparents, they have kids to make them feel young again and a reason to keep up-to-date with the happening of today’s youths.</p><p><strong>Discuss house rules</strong></p><p>Involve everyone in the decision-making process (not young children, but explain to them the reasons for decisions otherwise they might think it’s unfair they suddenly have to share a room). Mutually agree on house rules involving food, chores and curfews. Be specific and considerate – grandparents are often more than happy to babysit but just because they’re living at home doesn’t mean they want to be a full-time carers for grandkids. Stick to the rules and be consistent.</p><p><strong>Related links</strong>:</p><p><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="/lifestyle/family/2015/08/do-families-eat-dinner-together/">Do families still eat dinner together?</a></strong></span></em></p><p><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="/lifestyle/family/2015/07/grandchildren-grandparents-mental-health/">How grandchildren can protect your mental health</a></strong></span></em></p><p><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="/lifestyle/family/2015/07/ways-to-help-your-babies-grow/">7 ways you can help your grandbabies grow and learn</a></strong></span></em></p>

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